Filing for Divorce in Contra Costa: Do’s and Don’ts
In my short video, I walk viewers through the most common mistakes people make when filing for divorce in Contra Costa County. I’m Tim Blankenship from Divorce661, and I made this guide to help you avoid rejections, costly delays, and unnecessary stress. Below you’ll find a clear, practical breakdown of the process, the pitfalls to avoid, and steps you can take to get your divorce filed correctly the first time.
Why small mistakes matter
It might surprise you how a simple error on a form can add weeks or months to your divorce timeline. Courts are not there to hold your hand through mistakes — they will reject filings with errors and send them back to you.
“The court won’t guide you through mistakes. They’ll simply reject your filings.”
That rejection cycle costs time, increases stress, and can even affect related deadlines. Understanding the process up front and paying attention to detail is the quickest way to avoid setbacks.
Top filing pitfalls and how to avoid them
- Incomplete or incorrect forms: Whether you e-file or submit paperwork in person, every field must be accurate. Double-check names, dates, case numbers, and signatures.
- Improper e-filing: E-filing speeds things up, but it doesn’t eliminate the need for precision. Files uploaded in the wrong format or missing signatures will be rejected.
- Incorrect service of process: How you serve your spouse matters. Service must meet California and Contra Costa rules — sometimes an Acknowledgement of Service is appropriate, sometimes personal service is required.
- Incomplete financial disclosures: Both parties are required to fully disclose income, assets, and debts. Missing pages or incomplete schedules can halt the process.
- Rushing the timeline: California has a mandatory six-month waiting period after service before a final judgment can be entered. Trying to shortcut that doesn’t work; rush jobs often create paperwork errors.
How to serve your spouse properly
Service rules exist to ensure fairness. Common options include personal service or a signed Acknowledgement of Service when your spouse agrees to sign. Make sure you follow the correct method for your situation and file proof of service with the court promptly.
Financial disclosures: don’t skip them
Financial disclosure is mandatory in California divorces. Both parties must exchange:
- Income information (pay stubs, tax returns)
- Asset inventories (bank accounts, property, retirement)
- Debt schedules (mortgages, credit cards, loans)
Incomplete or late disclosures can stop your case in its tracks. Exchange complete, organized paperwork early to keep things moving.
The timeline to expect
- Prepare and file the initial petition and summons.
- Serve your spouse and file proof of service.
- Exchange mandatory financial disclosures.
- Wait the California-mandated six-month period after service before a final judgment can be entered.
Understanding this timeline helps you manage expectations and prevents unnecessary attempts to rush the process.
Real client example
One Contra Costa client had their final judgment rejected three times due to minor paperwork errors. We reviewed and corrected the filings and had the final judgment approved in one week — saving months of back-and-forth with the court. Attention to detail and correct formatting made all the difference.
Do’s and don’ts checklist
Do
- Complete every form carefully and accurately.
- Use e-filing correctly and confirm your uploads.
- Serve your spouse according to the rules and file proof.
- Exchange full financial disclosures promptly.
- Be patient — respect the six-month waiting period.
Don’t
- Assume the court will fix your mistakes.
- Skip or rush financial disclosures.
- Ignore proof of service requirements.
- Submit unsigned or incomplete documents.
How Divorce661 helps
At Divorce661 we offer a flat-fee, full-service solution for amicable couples in California. Our service includes:
- Start-to-finish handling of paperwork and e-filing
- No court appearances required for most uncontested divorces
- Fast, accurate, court-approved documents
- Support to avoid the common mistakes that lead to rejections
We also offer a free consultation to review your situation and explain the best next steps. Visit divorce661.com to schedule your consultation and learn how we can help.
Final thoughts
Filing for divorce in Contra Costa doesn’t have to be a nightmare. Get the forms right, serve correctly, complete financial disclosures, and respect the required timelines. Small steps up front save big delays later. If you want expert help to ensure accuracy and avoid the common pitfalls, reach out at divorce661.com — we’ll walk you through it and handle the paperwork so you don’t have to worry about rejections or wasted time.