How to Handle a Divorce When You Own a Home Together in California
One of the biggest questions in any California divorce is what happens to the house. If you and your spouse own a home together and it was purchased during the marriage, it is typically considered community property and must be addressed clearly in your divorce agreement. Deciding what to do with the family home involves financial, legal, and emotional considerations, especially if children are involved.
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How California Treats the Family Home
One of the biggest questions we hear during divorce is what happens to the house.
In California most property acquired during the marriage is community property. That means the home, along with its equity, is generally divided between both spouses unless you have a written agreement stating otherwise. Because the home is a major asset, your divorce agreement should spell out exactly how the home will be handled to avoid confusion and delays down the road.
Common Options for Handling the Home
There are three primary ways couples divide a home during divorce. Which option is right depends on your finances, the mortgage, tax implications, and what makes sense emotionally and logistically for your family.
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Sell the Home and Split the Proceeds
Selling and splitting the equity is the simplest and cleanest way to divide the asset. Net proceeds after the mortgage, closing costs, commissions, and any agreed offsets are divided according to the judgment. Make sure sale terms are included in your divorce judgment so the sale is court approved and processed smoothly.
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One Spouse Buys Out the Other
One spouse can keep the house by buying out the other spouse’s share of the equity. That usually requires refinancing the mortgage into a single name so the remaining spouse is responsible for the loan. The buyout amount, timing, and refinance conditions should be expressly written into the divorce agreement.
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Keep the Home Temporarily
Couples sometimes agree to continue co-owning the home for a period of time, commonly when children are involved and stability is a priority. Agreements should cover who pays the mortgage, property taxes, insurance, utilities, and maintenance while the co-ownership continues. Also include an agreed timeline or trigger events for when the house will be sold or refinanced.
Important Details to Document
Whatever route you choose, document the plan in your judgment and divorce papers. Key items to include are:
- Clear statement of the chosen option: sale, buyout, or temporary co-ownership
- How equity and expenses will be divided
- Who will handle the listing, repairs, and sale process if selling
- Refinance requirements and deadlines if one spouse is buying out the other
- How mortgage payments, taxes, insurance, and utilities will be handled during any transitional period
- Court approval language so the sale or refinance complies with the judgment
A Real Example from Los Angeles
We recently helped a couple in Los Angeles who agreed to sell their home and split the equity. We coordinated directly with their real estate agent, included all sale terms in the judgment, and made sure everything was court approved before the sale closed. That level of coordination reduced surprises at closing and ensured the division of proceeds matched the judgment.
Refinancing and Protecting Your Interest
If you are keeping the house and buying out your spouse, refinancing into your name alone is typically required. That removes the other spouse from the mortgage and protects you from future liability. Make sure your divorce judgment requires the refinance and sets a reasonable deadline. Include consequences if the refinance or sale does not happen on time.
Practical Steps to Take Now
- Identify whether the house is community property or separate property.
- Calculate current equity: estimated market value minus outstanding mortgage and liens.
- Discuss realistic options with your spouse: sell and split, buyout, or temporary co-ownership.
- Get a market analysis from a real estate agent if you plan to sell.
- If a buyout is proposed, begin refinance planning early to confirm affordability and timing.
- Put all agreements in writing and include them in your divorce judgment so the court can enforce them.
Why Clear Paperwork Matters
Clear, court-approved paperwork protects both parties. It prevents disputes about timing, costs, or proceeds later on and ensures your agreed plan is enforceable. Whether you are selling, refinancing, or keeping the home temporarily, the judgment should reflect the full plan and the responsibilities of each spouse.
Help Is Available
If you own a home and are going through a divorce in California, getting the right guidance early will save money, time, and stress. I provide flat-fee divorce services across California, handle court filings and judgments remotely, and help couples reach clear, enforceable agreements whether they are selling, refinancing, or keeping the family home.
Visit divorce661.com to schedule your free consultation and get help dividing property fairly so you can move forward with confidence.