A Day in the Life of a Divorce LDA (Paralegal) in Los Angeles

Welcome to Episode 31 of the Divorce661 Daily Perspective, where we dive into the intricacies of handling divorce cases in Los Angeles. Today, we’re going to explore the busy life of a Divorce Legal Document Assistant (LDA) or paralegal, and the various challenges and updates we face in the field. Whether you’re contemplating divorce or are already in the process, this post aims to provide valuable insights and updates that can help you navigate your situation more effectively.

Exciting Developments and Updates

Let’s kick things off with some thrilling news: my YouTube channel has just been monetized! This means I can offer more engaging content, including live sessions where I can answer your questions in real-time. I’m excited about transforming this platform into a self-help center for those navigating divorce in California. Given the long wait times at self-help centers, I believe this could be a valuable resource for many.

As a part of this new initiative, I’m considering implementing features like Super Chats or Super Thanks, where you can make a donation to get your questions addressed directly. This is just a thought for now, but I’m keen to hear your feedback on this potential direction.

Time-Sensitive Filing Information

Now, for those of you in Los Angeles County, there’s an important deadline approaching: you have just eight days left to file a new divorce case and potentially finalize it by the end of the year! This is crucial for anyone looking to wrap things up before the holiday season. The good news is that all filings in LA County are electronic, making the process faster. We can receive next-day approvals on judgments, allowing for cases to be finalized as soon as five weeks after filing.

However, keep in mind that even if you finalize your divorce before the year’s end, there’s still a mandatory six-month waiting period before the divorce is fully effective. So even if you get all your terms signed off by a judge, you’ll need to wait until around May or June for the divorce to be officially recognized.

Handling New Consultations and Cases

This week has been incredibly busy, possibly the busiest I’ve experienced in 11 years leading up to Thanksgiving. I had four consultations today and took on three new cases. Two of these cases are from clients in LA County looking to finalize their divorces before year-end. We also filed a new case from Orange County, specifically for clients in Newport Beach. In LA County, we’re able to get same-day feedback from the court, which is a huge advantage.

Insights from Client Interactions

During today’s consultations, several key topics arose that I believe will resonate with many of you:

1. Working with Clients

Over the years, I’ve transitioned from running a large team to managing my business primarily by myself. Technology has been a game-changer, allowing me to handle a high volume of cases efficiently. Clients often express surprise when they realize that they are speaking directly with me, which has fostered a more personal connection. I think this approach has led to happier clients overall.

2. Collaborating with Mediators and Therapists

If you’re a mediator or therapist and have referred clients to me, I genuinely appreciate it. I’m open to assisting clients who may need to transition from therapy or mediation to filing for divorce. Many amicable clients can navigate the divorce process smoothly, and I’m here to help with that.

3. Children Born Before Marriage

We often encounter cases where children were born before the marriage. In these situations, filing requires additional paperwork, particularly a Declaration of Paternity. Many clients don’t have this document on hand, but I’ve created a stipulation that mirrors the required form, which the courts will accept. This is crucial for finalizing the divorce.

4. Default Cases

I tackled a particularly challenging default case today. This case was filed back in 2020, and the initial paperwork was riddled with errors. After reviewing it, I realized that the clients had made multiple amendments, complicating the process. However, I proposed a prove-up hearing to clarify asset assignments, which ultimately led to the court approving the judgment today. It’s a relief to see a three-year-old case finally come to a conclusion.

5. 50/50 Custody Arrangements

Another case involved a couple who share 50/50 custody of their children. When filing the FL 105, it’s important to accurately reflect where the children are living. While it’s not critical to note the 50/50 split, I prefer to include it for clarity and to avoid any confusion later on.

6. Income Withholding Orders

We also discussed income withholding orders for both child support and spousal support. While the court typically orders these upon finalizing support agreements, many clients prefer not to have them due to privacy concerns. It’s crucial to understand that these orders can streamline payments, but they aren’t mandatory.

Important Considerations for Divorce Filings

As we move forward, here are some essential points to keep in mind:

• Filing Deadlines: Be aware of deadlines, especially if you want to finalize your divorce by year-end.
• Documentation: Ensure you have all necessary documents, like the Declaration of Paternity if children were born before marriage.
• Default Cases: Don’t hesitate to seek help if you’re stuck in a default case. It’s possible to navigate these tricky waters with the right guidance.
• Custody Arrangements: Clearly outline custody arrangements in your filings to avoid future disputes.
• Support Orders: Understand the implications of income withholding orders and discuss them with your attorney or LDA.

Final Thoughts

As we approach the holiday season, it’s essential to stay informed and proactive about your divorce process. Whether you’re filing for divorce, navigating custody arrangements, or dealing with support issues, remember that you don’t have to face this alone. Reach out for support, whether it’s through my services or by connecting with other professionals in the field.

Thank you for joining me for today’s update! I look forward to sharing more insights in future episodes. Happy Thanksgiving to everyone, and let’s keep the conversation going!