Why Life Insurance Should Be Part Of Your Divorce

When a marriage ends, the financial arrangements you make during the divorce determine how both parties—and any children—will fare in the years ahead. One of the most overlooked but powerful tools to protect ongoing support payments is life insurance. Properly structured, it ensures that child support and spousal support obligations continue even if the payer dies unexpectedly.

Why life insurance matters in a divorce

Divorce often shifts economic responsibility onto one spouse. If that spouse is the primary income earner, their death can abruptly eliminate the funds that the other spouse and the children depend on. Judges and attorneys commonly recommend life insurance to secure those ongoing payments. The core idea is simple: replace the income stream so family members don’t have to radically change their lifestyle because of an unexpected death.

“We want to make sure families out there don’t change their lifestyle and… continue to have their lifestyle going.”

Which type of policy is usually recommended?

Term life insurance is a common and cost-effective solution for divorces. It provides a fixed death benefit for a specified number of years and is typically much cheaper than permanent policies. For support obligations tied to a defined period—like raising children to adulthood—a term policy matches the need.

Typical scenarios and term lengths

If children are young (for example, ages 2 to 5), a term that covers until the children reach 18 is often appropriate. Common choices are 15, 20, or 25 year term policies depending on the ages of the kids and the duration of support obligations. The goal is to align the policy term with the period during which support would be required.

How to estimate how much coverage you need

A practical way to calculate coverage for child support is to multiply the monthly support amount by the number of remaining months or years until the children are independent. For example:

• If child support is $1,000 per month and a child is 8 years old, consider covering at least 10 more years.
• $1,000 × 12 months × 10 years = $120,000 death benefit.

This approach gives a straightforward replacement of the expected support stream. Many people add a buffer—one or two extra years—to account for inflation, college costs, or unexpected expenses.

Cost considerations

Term policies are generally affordable. Depending on age, health, coverage amount, and term length, annual premiums can range widely. In many divorce-related cases the yearly cost may be a few hundred to a couple thousand dollars, which is often seen as a modest price to protect a family’s financial future.

“Term policy is really not expensive at all… a really cost effective way.”

Who should be the beneficiary and how to protect the funds?

There are a few common beneficiary structures:

• Ex-spouse as beneficiary: The ex-spouse receives the proceeds and is contractually obligated—through the divorce agreement—to use those funds for child or spousal support. A written agreement helps enforce intended use.
• Children as beneficiaries: The children can be direct beneficiaries, sometimes with a trust or guardian arrangement to manage funds until they reach adulthood.
• Trust or court-controlled arrangement: A trust can specify exactly how proceeds are used, protecting funds from mismanagement and ensuring dollars are used for education, living expenses, and other agreed purposes.

Each option has pros and cons. Naming the ex-spouse is simple but relies on enforcement of the divorce decree. A trust provides more control but requires legal setup and may be more costly initially.

Other insurance considerations

Life insurance is one piece of a broader risk-management plan. Depending on circumstances, consider:

• Disability insurance to protect income if the payer becomes unable to work.
• Long-term care coverage to manage costs of serious illness that could otherwise drain assets.
• Group or individual health insurance where continuity of medical coverage is crucial after a divorce.

Practical checklist for protecting support obligations

1. Identify the duration of support obligations (child support end dates, spousal support term).
2. Calculate a replacement amount: monthly support × number of remaining months or years.
3. Consider a buffer for inflation, college, or unexpected expenses.
4. Choose a term length that covers the support period.
5. Decide on a beneficiary structure: ex-spouse, children, or trust.
6. Obtain quotes from a reputable insurance agent and compare policy features and exclusions.
7. Include the policy and beneficiary arrangement in the divorce settlement or court order.
8. Review the policy periodically and update it if circumstances change.

Next steps

Consult with your attorney and a licensed insurance professional to craft the right coverage and beneficiary structure for your situation. Securing life insurance as part of the divorce process is a practical, affordable way to protect children and the financially dependent spouse from sudden loss of support.

Key takeaway: Adding life insurance to divorce agreements turns uncertain future income into a guaranteed death benefit, helping families maintain financial stability when they need it most.