What to Do If Your Ex Refuses to Sign Financial Documents
I’m Tim Blankenship from Divorce661. If your ex is refusing to sign important financial documents after your divorce—even though the agreement is already on paper—you are NOT stuck. This post explains the practical steps you can take, the types of documents involved, and how court enforcement works in California so you can move forward.
Why this happens and why it matters
After a divorce, parties often need to complete additional paperwork to finalize asset transfers, close joint accounts, or split retirement benefits. When one spouse refuses to sign, it can block a refinance, prevent property transfers, delay retirement distributions, and generally leave you in financial limbo. That refusal is frustrating, but the law provides remedies to enforce the terms of your judgment.
Which documents can be enforced by the court?
Not every post-divorce paper is treated the same. Knowing the difference helps you choose the right path.
- Court-record documents: Items that are part of your divorce judgment or property settlement (for example, a support stipulation or a provision requiring transfer of title) are enforceable through the court. If these are ignored, the court can be asked to compel compliance.
- Post-judgment transactional documents: Documents like a QDRO (Qualified Domestic Relations Order) for splitting retirement accounts or a quitclaim deed to transfer real estate may need to be completed after the divorce. Even though they are “transactional,” they can often be enforced if your judgment required them to be done.
Quick definitions
- QDRO: The court order used to divide retirement or pension benefits so an administrator can pay each party separately.
- Quitclaim deed: A deed used to transfer property interest from one person to another—commonly used to remove an ex-spouse from title so the other can refinance.
What you can do in California
If your former spouse refuses to sign a document that the divorce judgment required them to sign, you can ask the court to enforce the judgment. The standard tool is filing a Request for Order (RFO) to have the court compel compliance.
- File a Request for Order asking the court to enforce the specific term of the judgment.
- The court can order the refusing party to sign the document and set consequences for continued non-compliance.
- In some cases, the court can go further and appoint another person—such as the court clerk or the requesting party—to sign the document on behalf of the non-cooperating ex so the transaction can proceed.
This mechanism prevents one party’s stubbornness from blocking the other party’s ability to refinance, split retirement accounts, or close joint accounts.
A real example
We recently helped a client who needed to refinance the family home into her name. Their settlement agreement clearly stated the husband would sign a quitclaim deed to remove his interest, but he refused. By filing the appropriate motion with the court and explaining the situation, we obtained a judicial order allowing the deed to be signed without his involvement. That order cleared the refinance and let our client move on.
“You’re NOT stuck—and you don’t have to handle it alone.”
How Divorce661 can help
At Divorce661 we handle more than just the initial divorce filing. We provide post-divorce support that includes:
- Preparing and filing enforcement motions (Requests for Order)
- Guiding clients through QDRO preparation and retirement-account division
- Assisting with property transfer documents like quitclaim deeds
- Helping you follow through until paperwork is accepted by lenders, account administrators, or title companies
Our goal is to take the legal burden off your shoulders so a stubborn ex can’t derail your finances or delay your next steps.
Practical steps to take if your ex won’t sign
- Review your divorce judgment and settlement to confirm what your ex was ordered to do.
- Attempt a documented, good-faith request for signature—email or certified mail creates a record.
- If they still refuse, consult an attorney about filing a Request for Order to enforce the judgment.
- If enforcement is granted, proceed with the substituted-signature process the court orders (for example, appointing someone to sign the quitclaim deed).
- Follow up with lenders, retirement plan administrators, or title companies to confirm the document fulfils their requirements.
Conclusion and next steps
Uncooperative exes are a common post-divorce hurdle, but California law provides clear remedies. If you’re stuck because your ex won’t sign something required by your divorce judgment, take action—don’t let them hold your future hostage.
For help preparing enforcement motions or navigating post-divorce paperwork, visit divorce661.com to schedule a free consultation. We’ll explain your options, handle the legal process, and help you move forward with confidence.