Contra Costa County Divorce: Step-by-Step Guide

Hi — I’m Tim Blankenship with Divorce661. Filing for divorce in Contra Costa County can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be. In this guide I’ll walk you through the exact steps you need to take, in the proper order, so your case moves smoothly, efficiently, and without unnecessary delays.

The process can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be.

Quick overview: the steps at a glance

1. Prepare initial forms (Petition, Summons, UCCJEA if you have children)
2. File your paperwork with the Contra Costa County Court (in-person or e-file)
3. Serve your spouse properly (or obtain a Notice of Acknowledgement)
4. Exchange preliminary financial disclosures (required)
5. Negotiate and prepare a Marital Settlement Agreement if you agree
6. Submit judgment and obtain final court approval

Step 1 — Prepare the initial forms

The very first thing you’ll do is complete your initial court paperwork. At a minimum this includes the Petition and Summons. If you have minor children, you’ll also need the UCCJEA (Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act) form to tell the court where the children have lived.

Complete these forms completely and accurately. Mistakes or missing information here are a common source of delays or rejections when filing.

Step 2 — File with the Contra Costa County Court

Once your forms are ready, file them with the Contra Costa County Court. The county accepts both in-person filings and electronic filing (e-file). E-filing is usually faster and more convenient — the court will issue a case number and return filed copies to you after it’s accepted.

Step 3 — Serve your spouse

After filing, you must serve your spouse with the filed documents according to court rules. Service is a required step to give the other party official notice of the case.

• If your spouse is cooperative, they can sign a Notice of Acknowledgement of Receipt. That avoids the need for personal service by a process server.
• If they won’t acknowledge receipt, you’ll need to arrange proper personal service (process server or sheriff), then file proof of service with the court.

Always file the appropriate proofs with the court after service — without them the case cannot move forward.

Step 4 — Exchange preliminary financial disclosures (do not skip)

Both parties are legally required to complete and exchange preliminary financial disclosures. These disclosures typically include:

• Income statements (pay stubs, W-2s, tax returns)
• Bank and investment account statements
• Mortgage and debt information
• Retirement account statements and property valuations

The court will not approve a final judgment until these disclosures have been exchanged. Rushing, skipping, or providing incomplete disclosures is one of the most common reasons cases are delayed or rejected — don’t underestimate this step.

Step 5 — Reach agreement and prepare a Marital Settlement Agreement

If you and your spouse agree on division of property, support, and parenting, you can prepare a Marital Settlement Agreement that sets out those terms. When the agreement is complete and both parties have exchanged the required disclosures, you can submit your judgment package for the court’s review.

Step 6 — Submit judgment and obtain final approval

When all paperwork is complete and in the correct order (petition, proof of service or acknowledgement, disclosures, settlement agreement if applicable, and judgment forms), submit your packet to the court. If everything is correct, the court will enter final judgment. In many uncontested, properly prepared cases this can be done without court appearances.

Real client example

We recently helped a Contra Costa County couple who already had all the pieces in place but weren’t sure about the court’s exact process. We handled form preparation, service, e-filing, and final judgment submission. Their divorce was completed without any rejections or court appearances — all because the paperwork was organized and filed in the right order.

Common pitfalls to avoid

• Filing incomplete or inaccurate initial forms
• Failing to serve properly or not filing proof of service
• Skipping preliminary financial disclosures
• Using the wrong county forms or filing in the wrong courthouse
• Submitting settlement or judgment forms before disclosures are exchanged

Checklist: what to have ready before you file

1. 1. Completed Petition and Summons
   2. UCCJEA (if children are involved)
   3. Identification and basic case information for both parties
   4. Plan for service (cooperative spouse vs. process server)

1. Financial documents for preliminary disclosures (income, assets, debts)
2. Draft Marital Settlement Agreement if you are settling the issues

How Divorce661 can help

At Divorce661 we guide you through every step to make sure your paperwork is correct, complete, and filed properly. We specialize in flat-fee, amicable divorces and know how Contra Costa County courts operate. Our services include form preparation, service, e-filing, and final judgment submission — and we regularly complete cases without court appearances when couples are in agreement.

If you want help getting started or need assistance finalizing a case already in motion, schedule a free consultation at Divorce661.com. We’ll walk you through the process step by step and help get your divorce completed quickly and correctly.

Conclusion

Divorce in Contra Costa County doesn’t have to be confusing. Follow the steps in the order shown here: prepare the correct forms, file them properly, serve your spouse, exchange financial disclosures, document any agreement, and submit your judgment. Do those things in sequence and you’ll avoid the most common delays and rejections.

If you have questions about any part of the process, I’m here to help — reach out and we’ll go over your situation and the next steps together.