How to Handle Child Support and Custody in San Bernardino County | San Bernardino Divorce

Hi, I’m Tim Blankenship with Divorce661. If you’re getting divorced in San Bernardino County and have children, two of the most important issues you’ll need to resolve are custody (parenting time and decision-making) and child support. The good news: if you and your spouse are amicable, both can often be handled without going to court. This guide explains how custody and support work in San Bernardino County and how to get an agreement that the court will approve.

Custody: Create a Parenting Plan the Court Will Approve

San Bernardino County allows parents to create their own parenting plan so long as the plan is in the children’s best interests. A clear, reasonable parenting plan typically moves through the court without a hearing when both parents agree.

What to include in your parenting plan:

• Where the children will live — primary residence and the schedule for time spent with each parent.
• Time-sharing schedule — regular weekly schedule, weekends, and any alternating weeks or extended time allocations.
• Holidays and vacations — how major holidays, school breaks, and vacation time are split.
• Decision-making — who makes major decisions about education, medical care, religion, and extracurricular activities (legal custody / joint vs. sole).
• Communication and exchanges — drop-off/pick-up logistics, expectations for communication, and methods for resolving disputes.

When parents present a detailed parenting plan that reflects the children’s best interests and both parties agree, the court will generally sign off without an in-person hearing. That keeps the process faster, less stressful, and more private.

Child Support: How California Calculates It

California uses a statewide formula to calculate child support. The primary factors in the formula include each parent’s income and the amount of time each parent spends with the children (time-sharing). There are also other factors that can affect the number.

Key points about calculating child support:

• Income — the formula considers wages, bonuses, and some other sources of income from both parents.
• Time sharing — more parenting time typically reduces the support obligation because expenses are shared directly.
• Other factors — things like health insurance costs, child care, and special education or school-related expenses can be factored in.

You can estimate support with an online calculator, but for precise results it helps to have someone run the numbers for you and incorporate any agreed deviations into the settlement properly.

Agreements That Deviate From the Guideline

Parents can agree to a child support amount that’s slightly higher or lower than the guideline amount, but the agreement must be fair and reasonable and properly documented in the settlement. For example, parents may agree to pay more than the guideline to cover private school or other child-specific expenses. If the court finds the agreement is in the child’s best interest and all legal requirements are met, it will typically be approved.

Real Case Example

Here’s a real example of how an amicable resolution works in San Bernardino County:

• One couple agreed that one parent would have primary custody.
• The other parent agreed to pay child support slightly above the guideline amount to help cover school costs.
• We drafted their parenting plan and marital settlement agreement, calculated support accurately, and prepared the full judgment package.
• The court approved the paperwork quickly with no court appearances or delays.

“We make the custody and support process simple.”

How Divorce661 Can Help

At Divorce661 we specialize in flat-fee divorce services for amicable couples in California. Our goal is to make custody and child support straightforward so families can move forward peacefully.

What we handle for you:

• Drafting a clear parenting plan that covers residency, holidays, vacations, and decision-making.
• Accurately calculating child support using the state formula and factoring in agreed-upon deviations.
• Drafting and assembling the marital settlement agreement and judgment package.
• Filing required disclosures and submitting the final judgment to the court to avoid unnecessary hearings.

Next Steps and Free Consultation

If you want help handling custody and child support in San Bernardino County without conflict or confusion, visit Divorce661.com to schedule your free consultation. We’ll guide you through drafting the parenting plan, calculating support, and preparing everything the court needs—helping your family move forward with as little stress as possible.

Conclusion

Resolving custody and child support outside of court is often faster, cheaper, and less stressful—especially when both parents are cooperative. Focus on creating a detailed, child-centered parenting plan and documenting any agreed support deviations so the court can approve your agreement quickly. If you’d like professional help to ensure the paperwork is correct and complete, Divorce661 is here to assist every step of the way.