What to Expect in a Los Angeles County Divorce Hearing
Hi, I’m Tim Blankenship from Divorce661. If you’re nervous about an upcoming divorce hearing in Los Angeles County, you’re not alone. In this guide I’ll walk you through what a hearing looks like, how to prepare, and how to avoid common mistakes that can derail your case. My goal is to help you feel organized and confident when you walk into family court.
What is a Divorce Hearing?
A divorce hearing in L.A. County is typically triggered by unresolved issues—custody, child or spousal support, visitation, or enforcement of prior orders. These hearings are requested through a formal filing called a Request for Order (RFO). Unlike formal trials, hearings in family court are generally informal, but that doesn’t mean they’re casual. Judges expect organization, respect, and well-prepared documentation.
How a Hearing Usually Works
Here’s what to expect when your matter is called:
- Both parties will be given an opportunity to present their positions and submit documents supporting their claims.
- You may be asked questions by the judge—sometimes directly and sometimes through a hearing officer.
- You should have your paperwork organized and ready to hand up to the bench when requested.
- The judge can rule immediately from the bench or take the matter under submission and provide a written decision later.
Why Preparation Matters: A Real Client Story
One client I worked with learned this the hard way. They failed to submit required paperwork on time and their RFO was denied at the first hearing. We refilled the request, meticulously prepared all required documents, and presented the case properly at the second hearing. The result? A favorable decision. The difference between losing and winning was procedural: timely paperwork and organization.
Missing or late paperwork can and will cost you. Refilling and proper preparation can reverse that outcome—but it’s avoidable.
Practical Preparation Checklist
To avoid the problems my client faced, use this basic checklist before your hearing:
- Confirm which forms and declarations are required for your specific issue (custody, support, enforcement, etc.).
- File and serve all documents by the court deadlines. Keep proof of service.
- Prepare a concise statement of what you are asking the judge to do and why.
- Organize exhibits and supporting documents in a clear, indexed packet.
- Bring copies for the judge, opposing party, and your own set.
- Practice answering direct questions briefly and factually—avoid long speeches.
Courtroom Conduct and Strategy
Remember: hearings are informal but procedural. Be respectful and punctual. Dress neatly. When you speak, be calm and focused—answer the judge’s questions directly. If you don’t know an answer, say so rather than guessing. Clear, organized presentation makes it easier for the judge to grant your request.
How Divorce661 Helps
At Divorce661 we work to avoid hearings whenever possible by negotiating written agreements and settlements. When a hearing is unavoidable, we:
- Make sure every required form is filed and served on time
- Prepare a clear hearing packet and outline for the court
- Coach you on what to say and how to respond to questions
- Offer a flat-fee divorce service so you can avoid surprise legal bills
- Provide 100% remote support across Los Angeles and beyond
Final Thoughts
Divorce hearings can be stressful, but they don’t have to be overwhelming. Proper preparation—timely filing, organized documents, and a clear presentation—can significantly influence the outcome. Learn from others’ mistakes: don’t let missing paperwork be the reason you lose a hearing.
If you’re scheduled for a divorce hearing in L.A. County and want help getting ready, visit Divorce661.com to schedule a free consultation. We’ll help you prepare, stay confident, and make sure everything’s done right.