San Bernardino County Divorce: A Clear Step-by-Step Guide
Hi, I’m Tim Blankenship with Divorce661. If you’re planning to file for divorce in San Bernardino County, this guide walks you through the exact process I use to get contested-free cases completed efficiently—without unnecessary courtroom time or hiring an attorney. Below I outline each step, explain what paperwork is required, and share practical tips so your case is handled right the first time.
Quick overview: What this guide covers
- Filing the initial paperwork (petition, summons, UCCJEA when children are involved)
- Properly serving your spouse and filing proof of service
- Exchanging mandatory preliminary financial disclosures
- Preparing a Marital Settlement Agreement that addresses property, support, and parenting
- Submitting the judgment package and waiting the mandatory six-month period
Step 1 — File your initial documents
The process begins by filing the Petition for Dissolution and Summons. If you have children under 18, you must also file the UCCJEA (Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act) form to identify where the children have lived and which court has jurisdiction.
In San Bernardino County we handle this through electronic filing, so you don’t need to make a trip to the courthouse. Proper filing keeps your case moving and avoids common delays caused by incomplete paperwork.
Step 2 — Serve your spouse
Service of process is required so the other spouse is officially notified of the case. There are two common approaches:
- Agreed mail service: If your spouse is cooperative, we can mail the documents with a Notice and Acknowledgement of Receipt. When they sign and return the acknowledgement, we file it with the court as proof of service.
- Personal service: If your spouse is not cooperative, we arrange personal service through a registered process server or law enforcement. After service is completed we file the required proof of service form.
Filing proof of service correctly is essential—if the court never receives valid proof, the case cannot proceed to judgment.
Step 3 — Exchange mandatory preliminary financial disclosures
California requires preliminary financial disclosures in every divorce, even in amicable cases. These include:
- Schedule of Assets and Debts (listing bank accounts, retirement, real estate, vehicles, debts, etc.)
- Income and Expense Declaration (current income, employer information, monthly expenses)
These disclosures create transparency and are required by law. Exchanging them early reduces misunderstandings and speeds up settlement.
Step 4 — Prepare your Marital Settlement Agreement
The Marital Settlement Agreement (MSA) is the document where you put your agreements in writing. It should clearly address:
- Division of community and separate property
- Spousal support (if any)
- Child custody, visitation, and child support terms (if applicable)
- Who will pay debts and how bills are handled until the divorce is final
Spend time drafting the MSA carefully. A well-written agreement minimizes the chance the court will send the package back for corrections and speeds up approval.
Step 5 — Submit the judgment package for court review
Once the initial filings, service, disclosures, and the signed MSA are complete, you submit the judgment package to the court. In San Bernardino County, amicable, correctly completed packages are often approved within a few weeks.
After the court signs the judgment, California law imposes a mandatory waiting period: a divorce cannot be finalized until at least six months have passed from the date the respondent was served or filed a response. That means even when the paperwork is approved quickly, you must wait the statutory six months for the case to be final.
Real client example
We recently helped a San Bernardino couple complete all five steps in under 30 days. Their paperwork was approved quickly, and now they’re simply waiting for the six-month finalization period to pass. That outcome is typical when the forms are accurate, disclosures are complete, and both parties cooperate.
Practical tips to avoid delays
- File everything electronically when possible—eFiling reduces clerical delays.
- Provide complete financial disclosures even if you agree—missing documents are a common reason for rejection.
- If your spouse will sign documents by mail, use the Notice and Acknowledgement of Receipt to save time and expense.
- Review the Marital Settlement Agreement for clarity—ambiguous language invites court questions.
- Keep copies of all filed documents and proof of service confirmations.
Why use a full-service, flat-fee solution?
Handling every step—from filing and service to disclosures and the final judgment—helps avoid back-and-forth with the court. At Divorce661 we offer flat-fee pricing, 100% remote eFiling across California, and court-approved results without hidden attorney fees. Our goal is to simplify the process so your case is done right the first time.
Next steps
If you’re ready to move forward, schedule a free consultation at Divorce661.com. We’ll review your situation, explain the timeline specific to San Bernardino County, and outline the documents we’ll file on your behalf.
Remember: A properly prepared case moves faster. With the right paperwork, cooperative parties, and the mandatory disclosures in place, San Bernardino County typically approves amicable divorces within weeks—after which you wait the six-month statutory period for finalization.
If you have questions about a particular step—filing, service, disclosures, or the judgment package—reach out and I’ll walk you through it.