How to Handle Child Support and Custody in Alameda County | Divorce661
Introduction
If you’re going through a divorce in Alameda County and have children, two of the most important issues to resolve are custody and child support. I’m Tim Blankenship with Divorce661, and in this article I’ll walk you through how custody works in California, how child support is calculated, and practical steps you can take to create a parenting and support plan that protects your kids and meets court standards.
“We’ll help you build a parenting and support plan that protects your children, meets legal requirements, and avoids unnecessary conflict.”
Overview: What the Court Prefers
California courts encourage both parents to share responsibility for raising their children after divorce. That preference shapes how custody and support are decided:
- Joint legal custody is preferred whenever possible — meaning both parents participate in major decisions like education, health care, and religion.
- Physical custody (where the children live) can be shared or primarily with one parent depending on what’s best for the family and the children’s stability.
How Child Support Is Calculated
Child support in California is calculated using a statewide formula that the courts expect you to follow unless there’s a valid reason to deviate. The calculation is typically run in a program called DissoMaster (often referred to simply as “Dismo” or “Disso”).
Key factors DissoMaster uses
- Both parents’ gross incomes
- The percentage of time each parent spends with the children (timeshare)
- Mandatory deductions (taxes, union dues, etc.) and certain credits
- Child-related expenses such as health insurance, childcare, and special needs
The result of that calculation is the presumptive child support amount the court will expect to see in your judgment. If you want a different number, you must provide a convincing reason to deviate from the guideline.
A Simple Real-World Example
Recently we worked with an Alameda County couple who agreed on joint custody and preferred to handle support privately rather than litigate. We ran the DissoMaster calculation and reviewed both parents’ budgets. The amount the couple agreed on matched the guideline calculation, which made it easy to include the agreed monthly support figure in their written agreement. The court approved it with no issues.
How Divorce661 Helps
At Divorce661 we aim to make the process smooth and predictable, especially for amicable couples. Our services for Alameda County include:
- Preparing all required parenting and financial forms
- Accurate child support calculations using DissoMaster
- Drafting a court-ready parenting plan and support agreement
- Filing paperwork with the Alameda County court on your behalf
- Flat-fee services and fully remote options
Practical Steps to Take Now
If you’re starting this process, here’s a checklist to move forward without unnecessary stress:
- Open communication: Try to reach agreement with the other parent on custody and support when possible.
- Gather financial documents: pay stubs, tax returns, childcare bills, health insurance costs, and any documented child-related expenses.
- Run a DissoMaster calculation (or have a professional do it) to see the guideline support number.
- Create a parenting plan that covers legal custody, physical custody/time share, holidays, and decision-making.
- Include the support terms in your written agreement and submit to the court for approval.
- If you need help, get professional assistance to ensure forms are accurate and filed correctly with Alameda Court.
Tips to Keep the Process Child-Focused
- Prioritize stability and routine for the children over parental preferences.
- Document expenses related to the children so support and reimbursements are transparent.
- Consider mediation or collaborative methods to reduce conflict and legal costs.
- When possible, agree to court-ready terms rather than fighting over small differences — the court generally favors reasonable, documented agreements.
Conclusion & Next Steps
Custody and child support can feel overwhelming, but with the right information and support you can create a plan that works for both parents and — most importantly — for your children. If you’re filing for divorce in Alameda County and need help with custody or support, visit Divorce661.com to schedule a free consultation. We’ll help you build a parenting and support plan that protects your children, meets legal requirements, and avoids unnecessary conflict.