How to Handle Retirement Accounts in a California Divorce (Los Angeles Divorce)
I’m Tim Blankenship from Divorce661. Dividing retirement accounts is one of the most important—and most misunderstood—parts of a California divorce. In this article I’ll walk you through the basics: why retirement funds earned during marriage are typically split, what a QDRO is and when you need one, real-world pitfalls we fix for clients, and practical steps you can take to make sure retirement division is done correctly and without unnecessary taxes or delays.
Why retirement accounts matter in a California divorce
Retirement funds accrued during the marriage are generally community property in California. That means both spouses have an ownership interest and, unless you agree otherwise, those funds are typically split equally.
Retirement accounts are often the largest shared asset couples have. Getting this wrong can lead to unnecessary tax consequences, penalties, rejected paperwork from plan administrators, and costly delays in finalizing your settlement.
What is a QDRO and why it matters
QDRO stands for Qualified Domestic Relations Order. It’s a special court order required to divide certain employer-sponsored retirement plans (like 401(k)s and pensions) so the alternate payee—usually the former spouse—can receive funds without triggering taxes or penalties.
A properly drafted and approved QDRO instructs the plan administrator to pay benefits to the ex-spouse or transfer their share into another qualified plan or IRA, all while protecting the tax-advantaged status of the funds.
“At Divorce 661, we make sure your retirement division is done right.”
Which retirement accounts require a QDRO?
- 401(k)s and pensions (ERISA-qualified plans): These generally require a QDRO to effectuate a division.
- 403(b) and other employer plans: Often treated like 401(k)s and typically require a QDRO or very similar order.
- IRAs: Traditional and Roth IRAs do not require a QDRO. Instead, transfers are handled via language in the judgment or a transfer incident to divorce. Even so, you still need correct paperwork to avoid taxes and penalties.
What must be included in the court judgment and QDRO
To avoid plan rejection or processing delays, the judgment should include clear, specific language. Common required details include:
- The name of the retirement plan and plan administrator.
- Identification of the parties (participant and alternate payee) with full legal names and, if possible, Social Security numbers or dates of birth.
- Exact split: percentage or dollar amount, and whether the split applies to contributions, earnings, or both.
- Effective date of the division (often the date of separation or a stipulated date).
- Instructions about survivor benefits, if applicable.
Real client example: a common mistake and how we fixed it
We recently worked with a couple who had amicably agreed to split a pension and a 401(k). They put the agreement into their divorce judgment—but they didn’t know a QDRO was required for the pension and 401(k). Without a QDRO, the plan administrators could not legally divide the accounts without tax or penalty consequences.
We corrected the issue by drafting proper judgment language and coordinating with a QDRO attorney to prepare and submit the QDROs. The plan administrators accepted the documents and processed the division smoothly. The couple avoided taxes and penalties, and the transfers happened without delay.
How Divorce661 handles retirement division for clients
- We include the proper, plan-friendly language in your divorce judgment so the intent to divide retirement is clear to judges and plan administrators.
- If a QDRO is needed, we refer you to trusted QDRO professionals who specialize in drafting and submitting the QDRO for approval by plan administrators.
- We coordinate with attorneys, QDRO draftsmen, and plan administrators so the division is processed correctly and on time.
- We help you avoid common mistakes like premature rollovers, improper withdrawal elections, or vague judgment language that leads to plan rejection.
Practical tips to avoid costly mistakes
- Do not withdraw funds or roll them over before the proper order is in place—this can trigger taxes and penalties.
- Confirm with the plan administrator what their specific QDRO requirements are; each plan can have different formatting or content rules.
- Include precise identifying information for both parties in the judgment to prevent confusion.
- Work with a QDRO specialist when dividing ERISA plans—QDRO drafting is a technical practice area.
- Consider survivor benefits and how the division affects future payments to a former spouse.
Next steps and free consultation
If you’re going through a divorce and have retirement accounts, don’t leave this to chance. At Divorce661 we provide flat-fee divorce services and make sure your retirement division is handled correctly from judgment language to plan approval.
Visit Divorce661.com to schedule a free consultation. We’ll guide you step by step, refer trusted QDRO professionals when needed, and help you avoid costly mistakes so you can move forward with confidence.
Questions to ask during your consultation
- Does my retirement plan require a QDRO?
- What exact language should be in the judgment for this specific plan?
- Who will draft and submit the QDRO—and how long will it take?
- Are there any tax or penalty risks I should be aware of?
 








