How to Handle Domestic Violence During a California Divorce
If you are divorcing an abusive spouse in California, your safety must come first. California law offers specific protections to help you move forward without putting yourself or your children at risk. A Domestic Violence Restraining Order, often called a DVRO, can be a fast and powerful tool to secure immediate safety while your divorce is underway.
What a DVRO Can Do for You
A Domestic Violence Restraining Order provides immediate legal protection and can include one or more of the following:
- Removal of the abusive spouse from the home so you and your family can remain in a safe place.
- No contact orders preventing the abusive spouse from calling, texting, emailing, or coming near you or a specified location.
- Temporary custody and support orders that provide short-term arrangements for children and financial needs while the divorce proceeds.
- Property and possession orders to protect your belongings and access to the household.
These protections are not just paperwork. In many cases, restraining orders can be granted within 24 hours, giving you fast relief and breathing room to plan next steps.
How the Process Works
Filing for a restraining order is straightforward, but it is important to follow the process correctly to maximize your protection and minimize contact with the abusive spouse. Typical steps include:
- Completing the restraining order forms detailing the abuse and the specific protections you need.
- Filing the forms with the court so a judge can review your request.
- Getting temporary orders, which can be issued quickly, sometimes within 24 hours.
- Serving the orders on the abusive spouse so they are legally notified of the restrictions.
- Attending any required court hearings for longer term orders during the divorce process.
Because the process can be emotional and potentially dangerous, it is important to avoid direct confrontation. Proper handling of paperwork and service can keep you safe and reduce stress.
How We Help
We prepare all restraining order and divorce paperwork and guide you through each step of the court process. Our approach focuses on your safety and minimizing direct interaction with the abusive spouse. Specific ways we assist include:
- Completing and filing paperwork accurately and quickly.
- Arranging legal service so you do not have to face your spouse.
- Requesting temporary custody and support to protect children and financial stability.
- Connecting you with trusted safety and legal resources tailored to your situation.
We coordinate the legal steps so you can focus on your safety and wellbeing. Our goal is to secure immediate protections while preparing for the longer term steps of the divorce.
Real Case Example
Recently, we helped a client in Los Angeles who was in an unsafe situation. We prepared their restraining order paperwork, handled the divorce filings, and ensured they never had to confront their spouse directly. The temporary protective orders were put in place quickly, and the client was able to focus on safety and recovery while the legal process moved forward.
Important Considerations
Some key points to keep in mind:
- Always prioritize your immediate safety. If you are in danger now, call 911.
- Restraining orders can be issued quickly, but accurate documentation of incidents helps the court understand your situation.
- Temporary custody and support orders are available and can provide immediate relief for children and finances.
- You do not have to navigate this alone. Legal and safety resources are available to help you plan and act safely.
Next Steps and Resources
If you are ready to begin or need confidential advice, reach out for a consultation. We provide a confidential process and will help you identify the best options for protection and divorce strategy.
“Your safety is our top priority.”
To start a confidential consultation or learn more about restraining orders and safe divorce planning, visit divorce661.com. If you are in immediate danger, contact local emergency services right away.
Contact Information
For a confidential consultation and to get help with paperwork, filings, and safety planning, visit: divorce661.com
