How to Modify Spousal Support in California | California Divorce

 

How to Modify Spousal Support in California

If you have a spousal support order in place and your situation has changed, you may be wondering whether you can modify the amount you pay or receive. The short answer in California is yes — but only when certain conditions are met. You cannot get a court to change support simply because time has passed. You need a material change in circumstances.

What Counts as a Material Change in Circumstances?

A modification request must show that something substantial has shifted since the original order. Examples of material changes include:

  • Job loss or involuntary termination
  • Significant increase or decrease in income
  • Retirement
  • The receiving spouse becoming self-supporting or earning substantially more

Time alone is not enough. The court looks for meaningful, demonstrable changes in finances or needs.

How the Modification Process Works

Here is a practical roadmap for requesting a modification of spousal support:

  1. Review your existing order or agreementStart by closely examining the original judgment or separation agreement. Some agreements include specific modification clauses or time limits that affect how you proceed.
  2. Gather updated financial informationYou will need current income documentation, tax returns, pay stubs, bank statements, and any evidence supporting the change you claim.
  3. File the proper paperworkPrepare and file a request to modify spousal support with the family law court. Include updated financial disclosures and a clear explanation of the material change.
  4. Negotiate or go to courtIf both parties agree to the change, you can draft a stipulation and submit it to the court, often avoiding a hearing. If the parties do not agree, the court will evaluate the evidence and make a decision.
  5. Obtain a formal orderOnce the court approves a modification or the parties file a stipulation, make sure you obtain an updated court order reflecting the new support terms.

Real Client Example

We recently helped a client who had been paying spousal support for nearly 10 years. His income dropped after a career change while his former spouse began earning more. We filed a request to modify support, attached updated financials, and the court approved a reduction in his monthly payment by nearly half.

This kind of result is achievable when you can clearly document the change and present a convincing case to the court or reach a negotiated agreement with the other party.

Documentation to Prepare

  • Recent pay stubs and employer statements
  • Federal and state tax returns
  • Bank statements and proof of other income
  • Documentation of job loss, retirement, or new employment
  • Evidence showing the supported spouse is self-supporting, if applicable

When You Can Avoid Court

One of the fastest, least stressful ways to modify support is by agreement. If both parties are willing to change the terms, you can draft a written stipulation and submit it to the court for approval. This avoids contested hearings and can save time and money.

Final Tips

  • Act promptly once your circumstances change. Delays can complicate the process.
  • Be thorough with financial disclosures. The court relies on accurate, up-to-date documentation.
  • Consider negotiating a stipulation if both parties are cooperative.
  • Get professional guidance to ensure forms are filled out correctly and your case is presented clearly.

Need Help Modifying Spousal Support?

If your spousal support order no longer reflects your current reality, you do not have to navigate the process alone. Visit divorce661.com to schedule a free consultation. We can review your situation, help you prepare the required paperwork, and guide you toward the best path—whether that is a negotiated stipulation or a court-filed modification.

A Week in the Life of a Divorce Paralegal: Insights from Los Angeles | Los Angeles Divorce

 

A Week in the Life of a Divorce Paralegal: Insights from Los Angeles

Ever wondered what it’s like to work as a divorce paralegal? Join me as I take you through a busy week at Divorce661, where we help clients navigate the complexities of divorce across California. From working with clients in various counties to handling diverse cases, each day presents unique challenges and rewards.

Our Week in Numbers

This week has been particularly dynamic. We handled 15 consultations, bringing our total to 56 for the month. We also welcomed 18 new clients this week, making it 51 new clients for the month so far. It’s been a strong start to the year, and the momentum continues!

Diverse Cases Across California

One of the fascinating aspects of our job is the variety of cases we encounter. This week, we assisted clients in several counties, including Los Angeles, Riverside, San Bernardino, and San Diego. Each county has its own nuances in divorce procedures, making our work even more interesting.

Case Highlights

Let’s dive into some of the consultations and cases we worked on this week:

  • Summary Dissolution: One client had been separated for a year and was in agreement about the divorce. They had no kids, assets, or debts, and wanted to finalize things quickly. Initially, they asked about an annulment, but I explained why that wasn’t feasible. Since they had been married for less than a year, we assisted them with a summary dissolution.
  • Long-Standing Divorce Case: Another client had filed for divorce back in 2017 but never served the papers. When I reviewed their case online, I found that the six-month cooling-off period had never even started. The case was still open, saving them the filing fee as we didn’t need to file a new one. We did, however, need to file an amended petition.
  • Trust Built Through Content: One consultation stood out because the clients hired us without even setting up a consultation first. This happens often due to the trust we’ve built through our online content and over 100 five-star reviews on Google. Their case involved a long-term marriage with kids, assets, debts, a home, and pensions. They retained our services to help finalize their settlement agreement.
  • Filing Issues: A client who filed for divorce on their own in 2023 never served their spouse. Therefore, their six-month cooling-off period hadn’t started either. They had filed FL 160 property declarations, which contain sensitive financial information, raising concerns about privacy. We recommended dismissing the case and starting anew, this time avoiding those property declarations.
  • Default with Agreement Process: In another case, the respondent had already filed a response. I explained that if both parties are amicable, filing a response isn’t necessary and only triggers a second filing fee. By guiding clients through the default with agreement process, we save them money while ensuring both parties are involved in signing the settlement agreement.
  • Asset Division Clarifications: A client got stuck in their divorce process due to confusion over asset division. They had assets, debts, pensions, and a 401(k) but didn’t want to divide anything. I clarified that as long as both parties agree, the court won’t force them to divide their assets, even if they are technically community property.
  • Revisiting Past Consultations: One consultation was with clients I had spoken with about eight months ago. They hadn’t moved forward because they thought their agreement wouldn’t be allowed by the court. One spouse wanted to keep 100% of the home while the other kept their pension, which were about the same value. I assured them that if both parties agreed, the court would approve it. They retained us and are now moving forward.
  • Starting the Divorce Process: Another couple separated last July and just began the divorce process. I explained that the length of marriage stops running at the date of separation. Even if they were separated for years before filing for divorce, the length of marriage for dividing assets and debts is based on the separation date. They hired us to get the process started.
  • Finalizing Mediated Cases: We also took over a case filed in 2024 where the clients had worked with a mediator to reach an agreement but needed help finalizing it with the court. It’s common for people to need assistance with the final steps, and that’s where we step in.
  • Rejected Cases: Over the weekend, someone scheduled a consultation for a case that had been rejected three times recently. Upon reviewing their situation, I advised them that a consultation wasn’t necessary, as long as both were amicable and willing to sign the agreement. They hired us, and I found numerous errors in their paperwork. Even the court’s rejection letter stated there were so many mistakes they couldn’t list them all. I corrected everything and sent their final paperwork for electronic signature so I could file it with the court.

Conclusion: A Busy Week of Helping Clients

As we wrap up this week, it’s clear that we have been able to assist many people with their amicable divorces. Each case presents a unique set of challenges, but the satisfaction of helping clients navigate through this emotionally charged process is what makes our work rewarding. Thank you for following along on this journey with Divorce661!

 

Understanding Shared Debt in Divorce: What You Need to Know | Los Angeles Divorce

 

Understanding Shared Debt in Divorce: What You Need to Know

When it comes to divorce, many individuals mistakenly believe that their financial ties, especially debts, are severed along with the marriage. However, this is far from the truth, particularly when it involves shared debts. Understanding how shared debt operates during and after a divorce is crucial to protecting your financial future. In this blog, we’ll explore the implications of shared debt, real-life examples, and practical steps you can take to safeguard yourself.

Shared Debt: The Basics

Shared debts are financial obligations that both spouses have agreed to pay back, typically incurred during the marriage. This can include mortgages, car loans, and credit card debts. In many jurisdictions, including California, these debts are considered community property, which means they are jointly owned and both parties are responsible for repayment, regardless of whose name is on the account.

Even if a divorce agreement states that one spouse is responsible for a particular debt, creditors are not bound by that agreement. This means that if your ex-spouse defaults on a shared debt, you could still be pursued for payment. Understanding this dynamic is essential for anyone going through a divorce.

California Community Property Laws

California operates under community property laws, which dictate that all debts acquired during the marriage are considered joint responsibilities. This holds true even if your ex-spouse agreed to take on the debt. If they default, you are still liable.

For instance, if your spouse took out a loan for a car and the divorce agreement states they are responsible for the payments, but they stop paying, creditors can still seek payment from you. This can lead to unexpected financial burdens, including damage to your credit score.

The Impact of Missed Payments

Missed payments on shared debts can severely damage your credit score. A poor credit score can affect your ability to secure loans, credit cards, or housing in the future. This is a critical factor to consider when navigating divorce and shared debts.

Consider a real-life example where a client thought their ex was making car payments. After several months, they discovered the car had been repossessed, leading to a drop in their credit score of over 100 points. They were unaware that their name was still attached to the loan, which highlights the importance of proactive financial management.

Proactive Financial Management

To protect yourself from becoming liable for shared debts post-divorce, it’s crucial to take proactive steps before finalizing the divorce. Here are some strategies to consider:

  • Pay Off and Close Joint Accounts: If possible, pay off and close any joint accounts before the divorce is finalized. This can prevent future liabilities.
  • Refinance or Transfer Debts: If closing accounts is not an option, consider refinancing or transferring debts into one spouse’s name to eliminate joint liability.
  • Seek Legal Enforcement: If your ex refuses to cooperate, legal enforcement may be necessary to remove your name from joint debts.

Real Client Stories: Learning from Mistakes

One of the most effective ways to understand the risks associated with shared debt is through real client stories. For example, a client of ours thought they were in the clear after their divorce agreement stipulated their ex would handle the car payments. Unfortunately, they learned the hard way that their name remained on the loan, resulting in repossession and a significant drop in credit score.

This situation could have been avoided with better communication and proactive measures. It serves as a reminder that relying solely on divorce agreements is not enough when it comes to shared debts.

Steps to Protect Yourself from Financial Mistakes

To ensure your financial future remains secure, consider the following steps:

  • Regularly Monitor Your Credit: Keep an eye on your credit report to catch any missed payments or changes in your credit status.
  • Communicate with Your Ex-Spouse: Maintain open lines of communication regarding shared debts. It’s essential to stay informed about payment statuses.
  • Consult a Professional: Seek legal or financial advice to navigate the complexities of debt division during divorce.

Why Choose Divorce661?

At Divorce661, we specialize in helping clients avoid debt issues after divorce. Our services include:

  • Flat-Fee Pricing: We provide transparent pricing with no hidden fees.
  • 100% Remote Service: You can manage your divorce from anywhere, making the process more convenient.
  • Expert Guidance: Our team ensures your financial future is protected through proper debt division.

Final Thoughts

Divorce can be an overwhelming process, especially when it comes to financial matters like shared debts. Understanding your responsibilities and taking proactive steps to manage debts can prevent significant financial repercussions down the line. Don’t leave your financial future to chance; seek expert guidance to navigate these challenges effectively.

If you’re facing a divorce and need help with debt division, contact Divorce661 for a free consultation. Let’s work together to protect your assets and ensure a stable financial path post-divorce.

Have questions about divorce and debt? Drop them in the comments below!

 

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Thanks To All Veterans From A Veteran Family | Divorce661.Com

Here at the Blankenship household we celebrated not only the Marine Corps birthday on November 10th, but today we also celebrate Veteran’s Day.

We come from a long line of Veterans that served.

My father and my grandfather both served in the Army.

I served in the Marine corps from 90-98 and my son is currently in the Marine Corps.

In the past we’ve gone camping on Veterans day weekend.  We’d usually take our motorhome down to Camp Pendleton. Can’t beat the ocean front views or the price.

I was really glad when the started allowing Disabled Veterans such as myself access to the base a few years ago, including the campgrounds.

This year we stayed home.  And obviously working.

But my son and I did carve out some time to honor our Veterans by completing the CrossFit Hero WOD honoring Chad Wilkinson.  This involves 1000 box steps wearing a 45 pound ruck.

Anyways, it was fun to get a workout in with my son on Veterans day.

Any extra time we can sneak in with our son we’ll take.

Hoping you are also enjoying your Veterans Day.

Birthday’s & Graduation Today

Today will be a fun and exciting day, of not exhausting. I have already been up since 4 a.m. and I am taking the day off to spend with my family.

Our 2nd born, Justin, graduates from Valencia High School today. So being that we do everything last minute, we are up early to take care of all the pre celebratory things one must accomplish. Everything from picking up the cake we ordered to getting balloons.

I also have to pick up the motorhome from storage. Why you ask? Because it is the ultimate mother and law quarters. No, not kidding and not trying to be mean. We have some family coming in and the motorhome is a perfect, private place for company to stay.

I mean, if it gets too loud in the house tonight ( son having some friends over) my wife and I might decide to stay in the RV.

Today is also my wife’s birthday. I think she is going to get cheated, what with it being my son’s day of graduation. I am going to take her to breakfast and then we are also going to lunch for my son’s graduation, but I think she knows that today will be more about him than her.

I don’t think she will mind. Our daughter came home from UCLA last night and will also be spending the weekend with us, so pretty sure she is a happy mommy.

We’ll it’s going on 5:30 and the birds are chirping and there is just enough light to be able to see outside. Time to get going as I am “burning daylight” as my dad used to say.

Have a nice Memorial Day weekend and be safe!

Who Is Tim Blankenship With Divorce 661

One of my goals when I started my company 5 years ago was to be transparent and provide as much California divorce assistance as I could.

Check Out Tim On Social to learn more about me personally!

 

So to date I have recorded over 1000 videos and written over 2000 divorce self help articles as well as a daily podcast.

Then, about 2 years ago, my wife told me that if I truly wanted to be transparent and stand out, I needed to let my guard down and let people know who I really am.

So I started writing a personal blog, which you are reading right now. The are mostly just glimpses into my personal life, things you would see on Social Media from your friends.

Then I decided to take it one step further a few months ago. I created a page where I share pretty much everything personal about me that I post on Social Media, both personal and professional.

I thought it was important that my clients see me as a real person as opposed to some person behind a company name.

You can learn more about me by visiting the navigation link that says ” Tim On Social” where I aggregate all my social media posts so you can see that I am just a regular person like you and hope you identify with me better and hopefully instill some trust factor.

Hope your are having a great day and enjoying this warm 95 degree weather we are having in Southern California.

Trying To Change My Attitude On Life

I have to first admit that I classify myself as more of a realist. This is just a fancy term I guess for being somewhat negative minded or at least more of “expect the worst but hope for the best” kind of mentality.

I know that is supposed to be different, but I do find myself not surprised when things go wrong. Almost like i expected it to go wrong.

Not that things go wrong often, but rather I am learning that it is my perspective on things that shape our reality. Deep right? But what I am working on, and maybe it is a sign of getting older, is trying to have a better outlook on life and not be so stressed out about things that don’t matter or that have even happened yet.

I will give you an example. My wife surprises me on Sunday night and randomly makes reservations at an RV Resort in Needles, CA., called Pirates Cove. I love taking our motorhome out and love the Colorado River, but my mind instantly goes to concern.

My first thoughts. How long is the drive? Did we get river front? Is it full hookups? And a thousand other things flood through my head. How about, “Sounds awesome, let’s go!”

But I am working on it and making improvements. I am at the point where I can actually detect when I am thinking negative and sort of catch myself to make a change in my thoughts or perspective.

This is huge for me and a good first step.

I even catch myself while driving being annoyed by drivers, the way they drive, etc., you know what I mean. I caught myself the other day and said, “who cares, I’ll get home, not need to rush home” (on my 5 minute commute from my office to my house)

I have to tell you, the little change in mindset had made a huge difference. It is almost as if the world will deliver what your expectations are, to a degree.

Think something bad will happen and perhaps it will or at least a situation will be seen through a certain filter that presents itself that way. Think something good and maybe that will happen as well.

As an example, while we were driving to Pirates Cove in Needles, CA, i just tried to focus on the good things and fun and relaxing we will enjoy. And wouldn’t you know it, we’re having a great time.

Yes, I have had a few relapses along the way thinking negative, but feel it is a good leap forward in at least catching myself so I can make adjustments along the way.

Again, don’t know what changed, but it is definitely for the good.  I was even talking to a client about this last week who was the one to bring it up. He said he was angry, mad at everything, traffic.. had road rage, etc., and one day it just stopped. He said he does not know what changed, but that life is much better and he is much happier.

So here is to being happy and trying to see the good in things, even if the aren’t and maybe, just maybe or thoughts change the way we perceive things.

Cryotherapy In Santa Clarita :: My First Santa Clarita Cryotherapy Session

Cryotherapy In Santa Clarita :: My First Santa Clarita Cryotherapy Session

I had seen a few friends post on Facebook about what they were calling, “cold therapy”. I did not pay much attention to it at first, but as more people were talking about “cryotherapy”, I decided to do a little research on it myself.

Turns out there are a ton of health benefits from cryotherapy. Several that would do me some good. There is a ton of information out there to research the benefits of cryotherapy so I am not going to repeat them here, nor am I a doctor, so I just wanted to share the benefits I have felt after just one treatment.

About a year ago I began having some pain in my left bicep. I went to the doctor and they said it was tendinitis from working out. A few weeks later I started having more pain in my shoulder which ran down my left arm and started having numbness to my left hand.

I went back to the doctor who then ordered an MRI. Short story is I had 2 pinched / herniated / bulged disks around my c-4, c-5 in my neck which was causing the nerve pain. In addition to the excruciating nerve pain ( if you never had nerve pain, there really isn’t anything like it) I began losing strength and muscle which began to atrophy from my shoulder to my left chest muscle and all the way down my arm. All in I lost about 75% of my strength and muscle.

I did all sorts of “natural healing” things I could do such as Chiropractic, acupuncture, cupping and later even deep tissue laser therapy. I did this because all the doctors wanted to do is prescribe pain killers and wanted to stick a needle in my neck to block the pain and later stick a knife in my neck and cut out the bulged / herniated disk. No thanks!

One of the benefits of cryotherapy is in reducing inflammation. Inflammation is one of the issues causing the nerve pain. So if cryotherapy can help reduce inflammation, I am willing to try it.

I can’t say that I felt immediate relief, but in researching cryotherapy, a person can have immediate relief of some symptoms and others that are more acute may take longer. So I am going to sign up and try cryotherapy for about a month and see what happens.

Benefits of first cryotherapy session

Sleep – I fell asleep faster than I normally do and had a more restful sleep. I usually wake several times during the night, but last night I didn’t. I did, however, wake up at 4 a.m. wide awake. Not a tired, want to sleep some more but can’t. Rather, I felt energized and ready for the day. I laid there for about 30 minutes before getting up, realizing I was not falling back to sleep.

Mood – Immediately following the cryotherapy I did feel better as far a my mood. Sort of a euphoric feeling or just a feeling of well being. We can all use more of that, right?

Energy – I do feel like I have more energy. Was up early this morning as I stated and got right to work. Feel like I have more energy for the day and actually feel like I can take on more or want to take on more and be more productive.

I honestly feel like going back today to get some more of this drug called cryotherapy, but I want to see how long the above effects last for. Some say the effects can last several days. I think I will shoot for 3 times a week for a month and see how things turn out.

The folks over at Mend Cryotherapy were great. I met one of the owners, Chris Browning, who I spoke with at lengths while there and learned about his business. We even talked about having him on my local podcast for a business interview on the SCV Local Podcast.

If you want to give cryotherapy in Santa Clarita a try, below is their contact info.

Mend Cryotherapy

28303 Newhall Ranch Rd

Valencia, CA 91355

844.321.MEND

Where To Get Air For Your RV, Motorhome Or Trailer In Santa Clarita

Okay, this is just a quick post totally unrelated to Divorce but I just wanted to get this information out there. We have a motorhome and have had it for several years. We take care of the oil and all the fluids and make sure that all the maintenance is up to date.

But I have always had a hard time finding a place who will put air in the tires.  I am assuming if I had a difficult time finding a place to get air in my RV tires in Santa Clarita, so do others.

You can forget about Camping World as it takes almost a month just to get an appointment there.

When I would be the motorhome serviced at the lube places, they would say they don’t have an attachment long enough.

I tried calling a few mobile RV guys and even some of the highway mobile diesel mechanics. Not them either.

So I happened to be getting my daughters oil changed at Big O Tires in Valencia and asked them if they would be able to put air in the tires. They said, “No Problem” and to just pull it up when I was ready.

So the next day I bring my RV to Big O Tires in Valencia and they have me pull up and fill all the tires which were very low.

I asked how much it would be and they said putting air in tires was complimentary and stop by anytime.

I honestly was surprised.

So to get air in your tires for your RV, Motorhome or Trailer in Santa Clarita, I recommend Big O Tires.

Big O Tires Valencia

23510 Valencia Blvd,

Valencia, CA 91355

(661) 259-7498

Thanksgiving Camping A Bust, But Still Nice Holiday

For the weeks leading up to Thanksgiving, I was on Reserve America just about every hour in an attempt to book a late camping spot at the beach.

I booked 4 different camp spots at different beach locations, slowly finding places closer to home so we did not have to drive to far.

The first spot was at Silver Strand in Coronado, San Diego right on the beach. I was excited to go there because I had never been and we had a beach row spot which all the reviews said if you were not on beach row, don’t waste your time.

Then I found a spot at El Capitan. This is much closer, just an hour or so away, but the goal was to get Carpenteria. Just a few days prior to Thanksgiving, I found a spot at Carpenteria. It was not the best spot, and not right on the beach, but did have full hookups so it would be good enough.

The Tuesday prior to Thanksgiving, I picked up the motorhome and got gas and filled up the propane tanks. We had groceries in the fridge and the turkey fryer in the motorhome. We were all set to go Wednesday morning.

My daughter was home visiting from UCLA so all as good to go.

Then Wednesday morning came and my wife was not feeling well and had a fever. Our daughter wakes up and she too is not feeling well.

So we decide to wait a few hours to see if their condition improved and, well, it did not. So I made the decision that we should not go.

So we unloaded the motorhome and took it back to the place we store it.

I was sad because I worked hard to get this camping spot and we had decided that Thanksgiving Camping and Christmas camping was going to be our tradition. Well, we didn’t make it even one year…

Today is Monday and my wife is still ill. She spent 5 hours at urgent care on Sunday and finally got some antibiotics. So it was good we did not go. She was sick, and still is sick, and I am sure being out in the cold would not have made her feel any better.  My daughter also was sick all weekend, throwing up in the middle of the night on Saturday.

That said, we were all together and did not have to travel to family which was nice. We had our Thanksgiving Turkey which came out great in the turkey fryer.

So it is back to the grind today and time to get back to work. I am thankful to have been able to close down shop from Wednesday through Sunday to spend quality time with the family.

We also managed to not spend one dime on shopping. We are not the black Friday crazy people you see and in fact did not even go out except Sunday to go grab a quick bite at La Cocina or LACO as it is known apparently.

Hope you and yours had a nice Thanksgiving.