⚔️ How to Deal with a Contested Divorce in California? | Los Angeles Divorce

I’m Tim Blankenship from Divorce661. If you’re facing a contested divorce in California—especially in Los Angeles—you’re not alone. When spouses can’t agree on custody, property division, or support, the court often steps in and the process becomes contested. In this article I’ll walk you through what to expect, how the process works, and practical steps to protect your interests while managing time and costs.

Quick overview

• When a spouse responds and disagrees, the case is contested.
• Temporary orders for support or custody may be issued while the case is pending.
• Discovery and financial disclosures are central to building your case.
• Mediation or settlement conferences are typically required before trial.
• If no settlement is reached, the case goes to trial—often lengthy and expensive in Los Angeles.

What makes a divorce “contested”?

A divorce becomes contested the moment your spouse disagrees with the petition you filed. Disagreement can be about child custody, spousal or child support, property division, or any number of related issues. Once contested, courts will move beyond the initial paperwork and begin a formal dispute-resolution process.

“Once your spouse disagrees with your filing, the divorce becomes contested.”

Temporary orders: support, custody, and more

While the divorce is pending, courts may issue temporary orders to address immediate needs—typically temporary child custody, visitation schedules, child support, spousal support, or who lives in the family home. These orders are meant to keep both parties stable and protect children while the case proceeds.

Discovery and financial disclosures: the backbone of a contested case

Discovery is where the facts of your marriage—income, assets, debts, and parenting practices—get revealed. Transparency matters: both sides exchange financial disclosures and collect evidence to support their positions.

Common discovery steps

• Requesting documents (bank statements, tax returns, property deeds, retirement account statements).
• Answering written questions (interrogatories).
• Depositions—formal sworn testimony taken before trial.
• Subpoenas to third parties when needed.

When experts become necessary

Some contested cases require expert involvement to resolve complex issues. You may see:

• Custody evaluations by mental health professionals to assess the best interests of the child.
• Forensic accountants or financial experts to value businesses, divide complex assets, or analyze income for support calculations.

These experts help the court and attorneys get a realistic, evidence-based view of disputed matters.

“Discovery is a crucial phase where both parties exchange financial disclosures and gather evidence.”

Mediation and settlement conferences: the court’s preferred path

Before most courts will allow a contested case to go to trial, they require the parties to attempt mediation or participate in a settlement conference. These sessions are designed to encourage negotiation and resolution without the expense and unpredictability of a trial.

Mediation can save time, reduce attorney fees, and produce more flexible, private outcomes than a court order. Even when mediation doesn’t resolve everything, it often narrows issues and shortens trial time.

Going to trial: what to expect

If mediation and settlement efforts fail, your case will proceed to trial. Trials involve presentation of evidence, witness testimony, expert reports, and legal arguments. A judge—not a jury—decides unresolved issues in family court.

Expect a trial to be:

• Time-consuming—preparation and multiple court appearances add up.
• Expensive—attorneys, expert witnesses, and court costs can push totals into the tens of thousands.
• Emotionally draining—trials increase conflict and uncertainty for families, especially children.

“If no agreement is reached during mediation, the case proceeds to trial. This can be a lengthy and costly process involving attorneys and experts.”

Why Los Angeles contested divorces often take longer and cost more

Los Angeles County has a heavy court docket and high demand for legal and expert services. That means longer waits for hearings and trials, higher fees for professionals, and more expensive litigation overall. Managing conflict early and seeking efficient resolution strategies is especially important here.

Practical tips to protect yourself during a contested divorce

• Start organizing financial records now—bank statements, pay stubs, tax returns, deeds, titles.
• Be truthful in disclosures—misrepresentations can backfire legally and financially.
• Consider mediation or collaborative law early to reduce costs and preserve control over outcomes.
• Discuss potential experts with your attorney to understand costs and likely benefits.
• Plan for temporary orders and how they will affect your living arrangements and finances.

How Divorce661 can help

At Divorce661, we guide clients through petitions, disclosures, discovery, mediation, and trial preparation with a focus on reducing conflict and managing costs. We offer flat-fee divorce options to help control expenses and a strategic approach to trial preparation when litigation is unavoidable.

If you’re facing a contested divorce in Los Angeles or anywhere in California, visit Divorce661.com to schedule a free consultation. We’ll help you understand your options, develop a strategy, and move your case forward with confidence.

Conclusion

Contested divorces are complex, emotionally charged, and often costly—especially in Los Angeles. Understanding the process (temporary orders, discovery, mediation, and trial) and taking proactive steps can protect your rights and reduce unnecessary expense. Early strategy, honest disclosures, and thoughtful use of mediation can make a real difference.

Do you think most contested divorces could be avoided with mediation? I’d love to hear your thoughts.