Bringing Your Spouse to Divorce Consultation: A Good Idea

Going through a divorce can be a challenging and emotional process, but it doesn’t always have to be complicated or contentious. I’m Tim Blankenship, owner of SCV Legal Doc Assist, based in Santa Clarita, Los Angeles. Over the years, I’ve specialized in helping couples navigate divorce paperwork efficiently and amicably.

Recently, I’ve noticed a growing trend that has proven to be incredibly helpful: couples coming together for their initial divorce consultations. This approach not only streamlines the process but also creates a more comfortable and transparent environment for both spouses. Here’s why bringing your spouse to your divorce consultation might be a smart move, especially if your divorce is amicable or uncontested.

Why Consider a Joint Divorce Consultation?

In the past week alone, I’ve met with three couples who chose to attend their consultations together. This was the first time I agreed to meet with both spouses at the same time, and it turned out to be a highly effective way to get a significant portion of the paperwork completed in a single session.

Meeting together allows both parties to ask questions and receive answers simultaneously, which fosters understanding and minimizes confusion. It also helps everyone involved feel more at ease with the process, which can reduce stress and uncertainty during what is often a difficult time.

Building Trust and Comfort

One of the biggest advantages I’ve seen when couples come in together is the increased comfort level for both parties. Usually, only one spouse hires me initially, and the other spouse—who hasn’t met me—may feel cautious or unsure about the process. But when both spouses meet me at the same time, they can see firsthand that I am not an attorney representing one side over the other. Instead, I’m here to facilitate the paperwork and guide them through the steps.

This transparency helps build trust. Both spouses understand that my role is to assist with the paperwork, explain the court process, and provide guidance on mediation appointments or other procedural details. It’s not about legal advice but about making sure the process moves smoothly and efficiently.

Who Should Consider a Joint Consultation?

This approach works best for couples who anticipate a low-conflict or uncontested divorce. If you and your spouse can communicate respectfully and are willing to work collaboratively, meeting together during the consultation can save time and reduce the back-and-forth that often happens when parties meet separately.

During the joint consultation, we can:

• Complete a large portion of the necessary paperwork
• Answer questions from both spouses in real time
• Clarify the divorce process and next steps
• Discuss how to handle mediation and court appointments

By the end of the meeting, both parties usually have a clear understanding of what to expect moving forward.

How I Support Both Parties Fairly

It’s important to emphasize that I am not a divorce attorney and do not provide legal representation. My job is to assist both spouses equally by preparing the paperwork and explaining the procedural aspects of the divorce.

When both spouses attend the consultation, it’s easier for me to maintain neutrality and ensure that everyone feels comfortable with the process. For one flat rate, I can help get the entire divorce paperwork prepared and ready to file, which can be a cost-effective and efficient solution for couples looking to avoid drawn-out legal battles.

Final Thoughts

If you’re considering divorce and believe that you and your spouse can work together amicably, I highly recommend exploring the option of a joint consultation. It’s a practical way to streamline the process, reduce misunderstandings, and start your divorce journey on a cooperative note.

For those in the Los Angeles area, especially around Santa Clarita, feel free to reach out to SCV Legal Doc Assist. I’m here to help you both navigate this transition with clarity and support. You can contact me at 661-2867 or visit www.divorce661.com for more information.

Remember, divorce doesn’t have to be a battle. Sometimes, working together from the start can make all the difference.