New Girlfriend Is Motivation For Divorce | Santa Clarita


New Girlfriend Is Motivation For Divorce | Santa Clarita

I can’t tell you how many calls I get from the new girlfriend of a man that is still married.  I don’t mean this in a disrespectful way, but guys, you know, sometimes the women have to keep us in check.

I love when the new girlfriend calls.  They are so motivated to see that their man gets divorced so they can move on with their relationship.

Hey guys ( or gals that never finished your divorce) you’re not alone.  We work with clients that have been separated for up to 20 years.  Some of which don’t even know where the other person lives anymore.

It makes for an interesting process, because of the fact that you have been separated for so long.  Let me explain.

When people get separated, they have already divided all their property long ago.  But what about all the property each of you have accumulated over the period you have been separated?  Well, you still have to declare it, as you are still legally married.

I know, it seems weird that you have to disclose your financials to someone you barely know because you have been separated for 3, 4 or 5 years or more.  A lot of things can happen during that time.  It is almost like you are telling a stranger about your assets and debts.

No doubt, period of long separation make for an awkward feeling when having to disclose how much money you may.

Trust me, you are not the only one who is asking me if this is necessary.  It is, and I understand that it is strange that you have to prepare your financial disclosures when there has been such a long period of separation.

I understand that you don’t want to have to deal with your divorce.  That is why it has been several years and you have still not completed your divorce.

But like I said at the beginning, the new girlfriend is motivation for divorce.  In fact, they are the one’s who normally are calling me to see what it will take to get their man divorced so they can move on with their lives.

We can help you get through your divorce in Santa Clarita.  It does not matter if you have a long term separation or not.