How to Serve Divorce Papers in Los Angeles County

I’m Tim Blankenship with Divorce661. If you’ve filed for divorce in Los Angeles County, serving your spouse with the divorce papers is the next critical step — and it must be done correctly. In this guide I’ll walk you through what to serve, who can serve it, the forms you need to file, common mistakes to avoid, and how we help clients get it right the first time.

Why proper service matters

This isn’t just a formality; it’s a legal requirement. Proper service of process officially notifies your spouse that the divorce has been filed and triggers the six‑month waiting period required under California law. If service is done incorrectly or the proof is never filed, your case can be delayed for months.

“You can’t serve the papers yourself.”

What forms you need to serve (and file)

After you file the initial divorce paperwork — typically the petition and the summons — the court will stamp your copies. Those stamped copies are the ones that must be formally delivered to your spouse. The key forms involved in service are:

• Stamped Petition and Summons — these are the actual court filings you deliver to the other party.
• Proof of Service — FL‑115 — completed by the person who personally served the papers (or by a process server) and then filed with the court.
• Notice and Acknowledgment of Receipt — FL‑117 — used if your spouse agrees to accept service by mail; it must be signed voluntarily and filed with the court.

Who can serve the papers?

The server must be:

• At least 18 years old.
• Not a party to the case (so not you or your spouse).

That person can be a friend, a family member (so long as they are not a party), or a professional process server. Many people choose to hire a professional to avoid mistakes and to get reliable proof of service.

Step-by-step: How to serve divorce papers in Los Angeles County

1. File your initial papers (petition and summons) with the court and get stamped copies back.
2. Have a qualified server (someone over 18 who is not a party) personally deliver the stamped petition and summons to your spouse.
3. Once service is completed, the server completes the Proof of Service form (FL‑115) detailing how, when, and where service occurred.
4. File the completed FL‑115 with the court to make the service official and keep a copy for your records.

Alternative: Service by mail (FL‑117)

If your spouse is cooperative, they can accept service by mail. To do this they must voluntarily sign a Notice and Acknowledgment of Receipt (FL‑117) which confirms they received the documents. After they sign and return FL‑117 to you, you must file it with the court in place of a personal service FL‑115.

What starts the six‑month waiting period?

The six‑month waiting period under California law begins after proper service has been completed and the proof of service (FL‑115 or FL‑117) is filed with the court. Without that filed proof, the case may be stalled even if the other party has actually received the documents.

Common mistakes and a real client example

Common service-related mistakes include:

• Serving the wrong copies (not the court‑stamped versions).
• Having an ineligible person serve the papers (for example, the filer).
• Failing to file the Proof of Service with the court after service is completed.
• Coercing a signature on FL‑117 — it must be voluntary.

Real client story: A client came to us after months of delay because their Proof of Service was never filed properly. We reviewed their case, completed the correct forms, filed them with the court, and got the case moving again — avoiding the need to restart the process entirely. Documentation errors like this are surprisingly common but fixable when addressed promptly.

How Divorce661 helps

At Divorce661 we help clients avoid service-related mistakes by:

• Providing step‑by‑step instructions for serving divorce papers in L.A. County.
• Coordinating professional process servers when needed.
• Preparing and filing all required forms (FL‑115, FL‑117 and others) correctly.
• Offering 100% remote assistance for California residents so you can move forward quickly and smoothly.

If you want to ensure your spouse is served correctly the first time, visit Divorce661.com to schedule a free consultation. We’ll take care of the paperwork, make sure everything is filed properly, and help you move through your divorce without unnecessary delays.

Quick checklist before you serve

• Have stamped copies of the petition and summons from the court.
• Confirm your server is over 18 and not a party to the case.
• Decide whether personal service (FL‑115) or voluntary mail service (FL‑117) will be used.
• Ensure the proper proof of service is filed with the court promptly after service.

Conclusion

Serving divorce papers in Los Angeles County is straightforward when you know the steps, the required forms, and the common pitfalls. Proper service starts your case and the statutory waiting period — and filing the correct proof of service is essential to keep your case moving. If you want help doing it right the first time, reach out to Divorce661 for a free consultation and practical assistance every step of the way.