Still Living Together But Getting Want A Divorce In California

Hi, Tim Blankenship here with divorce661.com. Today we’re talking about the fact of people getting divorced but who are still living together, 1st off let me say that this is very common.

The reason that I want to say that this is very common is because people call and they say Tim, we were going to get divorced but we’re still actually living together, we’re not separated. So, I want to let you know that’s, I don’t want to say the majority of time but maybe 50 percent of the time, people are still living together and for a variety of reasons you’re living together and you have decided to get divorced, of course you haven’t separated, some people do.

It just depends on where you’re at in the decision making process and a lot of times its financial related, you guys haven’t made the decisions financially on how this is going to look maybe through spouse support, or selling of the house or purchasing new homes or renting or moving on with your life, so many times it’s not practical to be physically separated.

In California, you do not have to be physically separated to file for divorce, it’s not that like in some other states but in California you can still live in the same home and not be physically separated, you don’t have to have any trial separations or anything like that in California, other states you do.

In California when you file for divorce you will state a date of separation, you’re going to say that we separated on this date or maybe we talked about separation on a particular date but if there is no other date in mind, because people say Tim what’s our date of separation, we’re not separated.

So if there is no date in the past that you would call your date of separation, then generally what we do is just have the date of filing or the date that you signed the petition as your date of separation, because you do need to have a date of separation on your divorce petition when you go to file it.

So as far as examples of what you could use for a date of separation, aside from the date of filing, you could use a date that maybe you started sleeping on the couch, maybe just a day that you guys set down at the kitchen table and discussed getting divorced and you agreed upon it.

Maybe, I don’t know you could have started sleeping elsewhere 1 or 2 days a week, there could have been something that happened that you say yeah on this is the date, the date of separation however, if no date stands out in your mind we simply use the date of separation as a date of filing of the petition or signing of the petition and that would become your date of separation.

For more information just give me a call, Tim at 661 281 0266 or you can go to divorce661.com for more information.

FL-150: When Does It Need To Be Filed: California Divorce

Hi Tim Blankenship here with divorce661.com and in this video, we’re talking about the income and expense declaration and whether or not it needs to be filed. So, when you go through a divorce you have to do your financial disclosures, this is an income and expense and schedule of assets and debts.

You’ll notice on the FL 142 which is a schedule of assets and debts, it says this form is not filed with the court, it’s just to be exchanged between the parties and that’s fine.

The income and expense declaration however makes it appear as if it needs to be filed because there is a place for a stamp and all of that good stuff, so what I want people to know and my interests is in having our clients of course and anyone watching these videos, give the court as little information as possible because potentially this is public record, so if you don’t necessarily want your finances out in the open for someone to go pull a copy of your income and expense declaration to see what you do or how much you make or your bills and so forth, there are certain circumstances where the income and expense does not need to be filed.

Primarily it is when there are no minor children, if there are no minor children in your divorce the income and expense declaration is not required to be filed. You’re still going to prepare it and exchange it as part of the mandatory preliminary disclosure process but you do not have to file it if there are not minor children and the alternative.

I get the same question people who have children and maybe have an agreement for support or don’t want child support, they ask Tim why do we have to still do the income and expense. It’s just a mandatory form when there are minor children but if there are no minor children, you do not need to file the income and expense declaration. Tim Blankenship, divorce661.com, thanks so much for watching.

California Default Divorce Property Division Issues

Hi, Tim Blankenship here with divorce661.com and today we’re talking about the different styles of divorce procedurally and in this case, were talking about a default divorce.

A default in this case, a true default where the respondent does not respond nor do they participate or do anything what so ever. So, when you’re going through a default style divorce where the other party is not going to participate at all there is a particular way you need to file your divorce petition and in doing so essentially, when you file your petition you literally have to prepare it as if you are preparing your judgment in essence, meaning because the other party is not going to be involved.

If there is assets and debts when you file the petition you have to also include your FL 160 property declarations and you have to write down every single asset and debt, just like you would on the judgment or marital settlement agreement, to include how each community property asset and separate property asset and debt are going to be divided and the majority of time you’re going to have to divide everything 50/50.

So I tell people the true default divorce cases should be as a last resort, we should always try and get the cooperation of the other party and in fact that’s what we have our clients do, if they say Tim we’re doing a default I ask why, they say well we don’t want to have to file the response and pay the other fee.

I say then fine we’ll do a default with agreement the other party can be involved, it will keep you out of court and it’s much easier and you have the latitude to be able to make decisions regarding the division of assets and debts, as opposed to just going the 50 50 route, as would be required on a default because the courts have to follow California law.

So I know that’s a lot of information that I went over quickly but at the end of the day, let’s say you file for divorce and you didn’t put any assets or debts on the petition, let’s say you said to be amended or will update as we go, then let’s say the case turns into a default meaning the other party is not going to participate.

In that case you’re going to have to amend your petition and then attach your property declarations and then refile it and reserve it so, you basically have to start over if it turns into a default unless you knew it was going to be a default from the onset.

So, if you have any questions on this please give me a call, we do handle divorce cases throughout California, divorce661.com or give me a call 661 281 0266. Thanks for listening.

While we have great reviews on social media channels such as Yelp and Facebook, etc., many of the compliments we received never make it into the public eye.

And I get it, when it comes to divorce not everybody wants to leave a public review about divorce!

We get lots of emails and phone calls with clients thanking us, but who don’t necessarily want to leave a public review. Below is one such email we received that I was able to capture to be able to share with you all.

You see, our clients are very happy when we finalize their divorce. I think it is just about being relieved that it is over… Finally.

I say finally, because many people call us after trying to do their own California divorce and spending months and months and not making any progress.

This was the case with this client. She had tried to do her own divorce and spent several months. Her case was rejected time and time again.

When she came to us, her file was a mess. I mean mess in that there were wrong documents filed and some not filed at all. The worst part was that the way the divorce was started, made it difficult to finalize so we had to be creative.

But in the end we got the job done.

At least half the business we get in new clients are folks that have first attempted to do their own California divorce. This is fine, i get it, you are trying to save some money. But what you probably didn’t realize was the amount of time and effort you were going to have to put into trying to do your own divorce.

So if you find yourself in this situation, just give us a call. We can pick up where you left off with your divorce and get everything wrapped up for you.

Hi, Tim Blankenship here with divorce661.com. This is just a quick tip for you.

Many of our clients live in different parts of the state or even different parts of the country. Let’s say we start a divorce case and one party lives in Southern California and the other party lives Northern California or even another part of the country, in Texas or anywhere for that matter.

I’m often asked, “Tim we live in different places. Can we sign separate sets of paperwork?”

When we get your divorced finalized where all the paperwork is ready to be signed. It has your judgment, your settlement agreement, all of your procedural documentation, many of the forms have signatures for both parties needed on the same page.

The question becomes, can we sign separate sets or do we need to round Robin all the paperwork?

So, although a round Robin would also work, meaning you sign it, you send it to your spouse, they sign it, they send it back to me and we finalize it. That’s fine, but it’s easier and just chances for papers being lost or paperwork getting lost in the mail, we say just sign separate sets.

What we’ll do is when we have clients in 2 locations, we’ll send out 1 set of paperwork to both parties either by mail or by email and say go ahead and sign on your end and we’ll just combine the forms when they get here. So, say there’s a form that requires both party’s signatures on the same page, we’ll just stack them. We’ll have the petitioner’s form on top with their signature and then the respondent’s signature on the next page.

Yes, it makes the judgment a little bit thicker than normal, but it’s totally acceptable by the courts, so you don’t have to both sign the same form. It’s easier to sign separate forms and we’ll just combine them in office.

Tim Blankenship, divorce661.com. Hope this is helpful. Give us a call if you need help with your divorce anywhere in California. 661 281 0266 or just go to divorce661.com for more information. Thanks so much for watching.

Hi, Tim Blankenship with divorce661.com, specializing in California divorce. This video is about the family law division of the Santa Clarita Superior Court.

We don’t have one.

In Santa Clarita, we do have a court obviously, but we do not have family law. A lot of clients call me and say Time, I tried to go down to the courthouse and they said we don’t do family law here. If you are living in Santa Clarita, your case will be filed in Chatsworth.

That is our local branch court. You think after all these years and as big as we have become, we would have our own family law division, especially since when I worked at the superior court, they said Santa Clarita and it was evident, provides the most divorce cases for the entire San Fernando Valley. So, we are just a subset that goes to Chatsworth and we are the ones that keep them busy.

Again, because I worked there in the past, I can tell you, that is true. So, if you live in Santa Clarita, there’s no court here for your family law case. You have to go all the way down to Chatsworth. If you’re looking for assistance for your divorce case, that’s what we do.

We handle divorce cases on a mediated style, as a paralegal firm here in Santa Clarita. I’ll be happy to help you with your divorce case. Give us a call with any questions. 661 281 0266 or go to divorce661.com for more information. Thanks so much for watching.

In this video, we’re talking about certain time frames you have when completing your divorce. We started a divorce case a month or 2 ago and while the majority of our cases get done relatively quick, sometimes clients will get hung up and have some decisions they have to make and maybe it’s going to take some time for those decisions.

So the email i got was, “Tim it’s been 3 or 4 months and we haven’t finalized our divorce, are we running out of time? The answer is no.

In California, most of the courts will state that you have 5 years to complete your case. Now, they’ve been getting more strict in cases where they’re not moving forward. We’re starting to say cases being dismissed prior to the 5 years.

What you want to do is make sure that your case is moving forward at all times. For instance, if you’re filing your divorce case, you should have it served relatively soon. The courts generally, and each court runs somewhat different, but generally the courts will not get involved or send out any notices until 60 days have passed from the date of filing.

If you want to avoid the court’s involvement in sending out notices, file your proof of service in at least 60 days. Following that, at least in LA County courts, and other counties are going to be different, they will start sending out notices if you have not submitted your procedural documentation of your disclosure documents and later on, if you haven’t submitted your judgment.

They’ll start sending out notices saying you need to appear, otherwise your case will be dismissed. You need to pay attention to those notices you get from the court and all counties are different. Even each court within the counties are different, so make sure you pay attention to those notices and see if it is asking you to make an appearance.

It will say you must appear or it may say you do not need to appear depending on the type of hearing that is there. Just make sure your case is moving forward. Make sure you read the notices. You don’t want your case to be dismissed because if it does get dismissed, you obviously have to file a brand new case and pay all the court fees again and your clock starts on the 6 months again if you start a brand new case.

Tim Blankenship, divorce661.com. Hope you’re having a great day. Thanks so much for watching. Talk to you soon.

Many people do not like to have their support paid through their employer. Seems the spouse receiving support wants it paid through the employer while the one paying does not. It is easy to file an FL-435 spousal support earnings assignment order, but as the payor of support, you can request a hearing by filing the FL-450.

How To Stop California Divorce Spousal Support Withholding Order

This is another video we’re discussing the FL 435 Spousal Support Earnings Assignment Order and in the previous video, seeing how that’s a good way to have spousal support paid to you directly from the employer.

When you do serve it however, when you file and serve it on the court, you also have to serve a copy to your spouse, so they know what’s going on, so they know it’s to be expected. You do have an opportunity. Say I’m paying spousal support, for instance and my spouse filed an FL 435 Spousal Support Earnings Assignment Order and I didn’t want that to be attached to my employer, a lot of people don’t like that.

It is what it is, but a lot of people don’t like to have it attached to their employer. You can object to that and it’s a form FL 450. You do have an opportunity to be heard if your spouse files an earnings assignment order for spousal support.

You’re supposed to file the 435, serve a copy on your employer with a blank FL 450, so they know they have an opportunity to respond and object to the earnings assignment order.

Any questions, give me a call. Tim Blankenship, divorce661.com. We handle divorce cases throughout California. 661 281 0266. Hope this video was helpful. Have a great day.