What to Expect in a San Bernardino County Divorce Hearing
I’m Tim Blankenship of Divorce661. In my video, I walk you step-by-step through what happens in a San Bernardino County divorce hearing and—more importantly—how to avoid unnecessary court time by getting your paperwork right the first time. If you’re facing a contested issue or an incomplete file, this guide will help you prepare, reduce stress, and keep your case moving.
Why some divorces go to hearing (and many don’t)
Most uncontested divorces in California never reach a courtroom. But when paperwork is missing, disclosures are incomplete, or parties can’t agree on key issues—such as custody, child or spousal support, or property division—a judge will schedule a hearing to resolve those disputes.
In San Bernardino County, a family law judge reviews both sides and issues orders intended to be fair and enforceable. The hearing is your opportunity to present facts, declarations, and evidence so the judge can make a decision when parties can’t settle on their own.
Common issues addressed at divorce hearings
- Child custody and visitation: Physical and legal custody, parenting time, and what’s in the child’s best interest.
- Child and spousal support: Amounts, duration, and enforcement.
- Property and debt division: Which assets or debts belong to whom, valuation disputes, and temporary orders.
- Paperwork and procedural matters: Missing forms, incomplete disclosures, service problems, or requests for continuances.
Why preparation matters — and what can go wrong
Preparation is everything. Show up with complete paperwork, a clear understanding of the narrow issue the judge will decide, and respect for the court’s schedule. Missing or incorrect documents are the most common reason hearings are postponed—sometimes for months. That kind of delay can be costly emotionally, financially, and practically.
Missing documents can lead to postponed hearings causing months of delay.
I’ve seen a status conference that should have been routine get postponed because the party didn’t have the right documents. They lost months while the case stalled. With the right guidance and correct paperwork, we were able to get that client back on track quickly.
How to prepare for a San Bernardino County divorce hearing — practical checklist
- Confirm the exact issues on the hearing calendar so you prepare only what’s needed.
- Assemble and review all relevant documents: financial disclosures, declarations, custody proposals, receipts, and valuation evidence.
- Bring copies for the judge, the other party, and your own file—label everything.
- Arrive early and dress respectfully; respect for the court’s time matters.
- Practice a short, factual explanation of your position—focus on what the judge needs to know.
- Be prepared for questions and stay calm: a clear, respectful demeanor helps convey credibility.
What I do at Divorce661 to help
At Divorce661 we focus on doing the paperwork right the first time so you avoid unnecessary court hearings. Our services include:
- Flat-fee packages for predictable, affordable representation.
- Filing, service, and all required disclosures handled for you.
- Preparing judgments and settlement paperwork to finality.
- If a hearing is necessary, we coach you and prepare a clear presentation so you walk into court confident and ready.
Our goal is simple: minimize your stress, avoid delays, and get your divorce resolved efficiently.
Real client example
A client came to a status conference without critical documentation. The judge postponed the hearing and ordered the missing items—creating a delay of several months. We stepped in, organized the required paperwork, and got the case moving again. This scenario highlights how small oversights become big setbacks without experienced guidance.
Final tips for a smooth hearing
- Double-check the court’s required forms and timelines ahead of time.
- Keep your presentation focused on the single issue before the judge.
- Respect deadlines and the court’s schedule—showing up prepared communicates seriousness.
- If you’re unsure, seek help early. Correcting mistakes later costs time and money.
Next steps
If you’re facing a hearing in San Bernardino County—or want to avoid one—visit Divorce661.com for a free consultation. We’ll review your situation, explain your options, and help you move forward with confidence. Together we’ll tackle your divorce process with clarity, reduce the likelihood of hearings, and make sure you’re ready if the court becomes necessary.
Which part of a hearing would make you most nervous: custody, support, or property? I’d love to hear your thoughts.
