Default California Divorce : Default Without Agreement Issues

Default California Divorce : Default Without Agreement Issues

There are different types of divorce cases, procedurally, that you may find yourself in. The topic here is issues related to filing a default California divorce case also known as a default without an agreement.

Most people don’t start off with the intent of filing a default divorce case. Most people file for their California divorce and hope it to be uncontested or at least where they hope that they and their may come to an agreement at some point.

Different Ways Of Filing Your Divorce Petition

When you file your divorce petition, there are different ways of preparing it. Meaning, if you know you will have an uncontested case, there is no need to include your property on the Petition itself. In fact, with our clients we never include any property on the divorce petition and simply state that it will be amended.

When we say amended, we are talking about simply including the property in the judgment itself, versus listing everything in the divorce Petition.

Here becomes the problem. When it comes to a California default divorce or Default without agreement (means same thing), the only thing you can ask for in your judgment is what you asked for in the Petition. The theory being is that the court assumes that the Respondent did not Respond to the Petition because they were in agreement to what was asked for in the Petition.

And if you didn’t list any property or proposed property division in the Petition, then you can’t ask for any property in your judgment.

This might be easier explained with an example.

Wife files for divorce in California. On the Petition, she simply files for divorce and does not list any property on the Petition itself. She does this because her and her spouse have already come to an agreement, and in fact, have a settlement agreement they have already signed. So her divorce case is mostly procedural at this point.

Then, the husband decides he is not going to do any of the divorce paperwork, as in the court forms, etc. So this leaves wife to try to finalize the divorce case as a default.

She files her judgment as a default and includes the marital settlement agreement that they signed. The court rejects her judgment because the Respondent has not filed his side of mandatory disclosure forms. So the court is assuming that she is trying to file an uncontested divorce judgment because of the marital settlement agreement and reject her judgment because of missing paperwork that needs to be filed with the court.

The problem is that even though she has a signed marital settlement agreement, the Respondent had not prepared his financial disclosures or signed any of the procedural court forms to make this a default WITH agreement vs. default without an agreement.

When she calls me for advice on the best way to finalize her divorce I have to tell her that it will be very difficult. Even though she had a signed marital settlement agreement, she still has a true default divorce case procedurally because he refuses to complete his side of the court documents.

But because she did not list any property on the divorce petition, she cannot file a default judgment.

So here is the fix. She needs to file an amended Petition and list the property on the property declarations, form FL-160 and file those along with her proposed separation of assets and debts.

So while she may have had an agreement to split the property a certain way, with the default the courts will fall back on California law and require her to split all assets and debts 50/50. This is usually a problem, because despite it seeming fair to split everything 50/50, they had agreed to a different division of assets and debts that was more fair.

This is why I always tell my clients it is better to enter into an agreement with your spouse. By coming to an agreement, you get to decide how you want to divide up your things. Property division does not need to be even or 50/50 when you are in agreement. You get to decide how you want to do this.

Many of our clients simply keep the assets and debts each of them have separately acquired, despite the fact that community property laws state a 50/50 division.

When in agreement, the courts do not look at how you are dividing your property or even if it is an equal for fair division. They know that you have entered into this agreement and that if you are signing the divorce judgment that you are obviously making this decision on your own and in your own best interest.

So for this client, unfortunately, she will have to amend her divorce petition and have him re-served. The other unfortunate thing is that when you amend your petition, you automatically set aside the default and give the other party another 30 days to file his or her response.

Most of where our clients who first try to do their own divorce get hung up is with court procedure. Yes, they also have trouble with the forms, but there is so much court procedure you have to understand to get your divorce case approved by the courts, that you will usually, at some point, need our assistance to navigate the California divorce process.

Santa Clarita Divorce : How To Serve Divorce Papers : Petition & Summons Service

Santa Clarita Divorce : How To Serve Divorce Papers

There are several ways to serve your Santa Clarita divorce papers.  When people here the word “served” they automatically think of “personal service”.  And while personal service of your Santa Clarita divorce papers is what people commonly think of, there are other ways to have your spouse served divorce papers. Let’s discuss a few ways to serve divorce papers.

Personal Service Of Santa Clarita Divorce Papers

First, you have what we were just talking about, personal service. This means that you have someone, other than yourself, over the age of 18, and not a party to the case, literally hand the divorce papers being served to the person being served.

Many people think that when they personally serve someone divorce papers that the person receiving them needs to sign something. This is not correct. When you personally serve someone divorce papers, you literally just hand them to them and walk away.  Even if they look at them and drop them or throw them, they have been served.

But how does the court know they have been served? Because the person who served the divorce papers will fill out a proof of personal service of summons and file it with the court.

Service By Notice and Acknowledgment Of Receipt of Divorce Papers

Second, is the way were prefer to have our clients served. It is simply by having the person being served, also known as the Respondent, sign a form FL-117 which is a notice of acknowledgment of receipt. This is a form that gets signed where the Respondent is saying they received a copy by mail.

This is our go-to-way of serving our amicable divorce clients who are using our service. Why? Because people going through amicable divorce cases in Santa Clarita don’t want to have their spouse embarrassed at work by having someone come into their place of residence or business and have someone hand them divorce papers. That’s why!

For that reason, we don’t do that unless the divorce case we are handling is not amicable, or where the other party is not returning the notice of acknowledgment.

Service Of Divorce Papers By Certified Mail

Third, you have certified mail. Yes, you can serve divorce papers by certified mail, but only if the other party is living out of state. And, there are different rules on what you use for the date of service on the judgment when you are using service by certified mail and specific instructions.

How you ultimately serve your spouse the divorce papers will be based upon if your Santa Clarita divorce is amicable or not. We always try the easy way first and people are glad to hear that their spouse will not be getting personally served.

Santa Clarita Divorce : Will I Have To Go To Court For My Divorce?

Santa Clarita Divorce : Will I Have To Go To Court For My Divorce?

Whether you have to go to court or not for your Santa Clarita divorce depends much on what you have going on.

What I mean to say is that if your case is contested and you have attorneys and cannot come to an agreement for your divorce out of court, then you likely will end up in divorce court.

However, if you are working with our Santa Clarita divorce service, you will not have to go to divorce court.

The reason you won’t have to go to divorce court if you our Santa Clarita divorce service is because if you are using our divorce service your divorce is likely amicable or at least somewhat amicable.

When you use our Santa Clarita divorce service, we handle all the paperwork and go to court for you. We don’t go to court to handle contested divorce cases or represent you in court, rather we handle all the filing of the divorce paperwork and preparation of all the forms to finalize your divorce.

People often think that it is mandatory that they go to court. They will say something like, “What will the judge say about our agreements” or “At what point to we go to court for our divorce”? And they are often surprised when I tell them that they won’t be going to court if they use my Santa Clarita Divorce service and end up coming to an agreement.

You see, the only reason people end up in court is because they could not figure things out on their own and need to have a judge make a decision for them.

The folks that use our Santa Clarita divorce service utilize us to help them draft their divorce marital settlement agreement so we can submit their agreements to court.

Again, just to be clear, if you use our service, all paperwork is completed by us and no appearance in divorce court is required.

Santa Clarita Divorce : How To Look Up Your Divorce Case Online

Santa Clarita Divorce : How To Look Up Your Divorce Case Online

Did you know that you can look up your Santa Clarita Divorce online? You can’t actually see the divorce forms that were filed, but you can see them listed by the form number.

When people call me about their Santa Clarita divorce and have questions about either the process or procedure, one of the first things I will ask them for is their divorce case number. The reason I want to see their divorce case number is because I can see what divorce forms were filed which gives me an idea of where their case is at.

Below is an older videos I did in 2012 which explains more. (keep reading below video)

This is important because it allows me to help figure out what needs to happen in order to finalize their divorce case.

Many times people call me about their Santa Clarita divorce because they need help finalizing their divorce.  Many times people try to start their own divorce on their own and run into trouble. When they call me in the middle of their divorce case, it is easier for me to figure out what is remaining by looking up their case number online.

If you are doing your own Santa Clarita Divorce, you will want to check on your online case summary frequently. The reason I say this is because when people are representing themselves, such as your spouse, they may not know what forms they need to serve on you. If they don’t follow proper procedure and don’t serve you it may turn out that your divorce gets finalized without you knowing it.

We also see a lot of spouses intentionally trying to trick their spouse and tell them everything is fine, while behind the scenes they are trying to finalize the divorce without them, trying to gain some financial advantage.

This is why it is important to use a professional divorce service like us. Give us a call for a free consultation and we can take a look at your case and help you finalize your Santa Clarita divorce case wherever point you are at.

Santa Clarita Divorce Process : Divorce 661

Santa Clarita Divorce Process : Divorce 661

When going through a divorce in Santa Clarita, California there are several things you should know. There are the rules your need to know about as far as California law is concerned and you need to have an  understanding of how to properly prepare your divorce papers if you are thinking of doing your own divorce.

In this video we discuss what the divorce process looks like in California. (keep reading below video)

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When I say you need to know the law, I mean to say that you at least need to have a basic understanding of how community property works and how spousal support is addressed at a very minimum.

For instance, for community property, you need to know at the very basic level is that community property is simply those things you have acquired during the marriage and that generally they are divided equally during divorce.

And for spousal support, you need to know the rules related to short term marriages vs long term marriages and how spousal support is calculated, how much it will be and for how long your should pay or receive spousal support.

Now, when it comes to the process of getting a divorce in Santa Clarita, we are talking about form completion and the different types of divorce you can go through procedurally.

Meaning are you going to have a contested divorce? An uncontested divorce? Maybe a true default or default with agreement. These are all different ways to complete your Santa Clarita Divorce.

As far as how you are going to get your divorce done.  You have choices to make here as well. Are you going to try to do your own divorce? Hire a professional divorce paralegal company like us? Or, are you going to decide to hire an attorney.

Your specific situation is going to dictate who you use to complete your Santa Clarita Divorce and by what process you will complete it.

If you need assistance with your divorce, please feel free to schedule a free phone consultation with us.

Santa Clarita Divorce Paralegal Service : Divorce 661

Santa Clarita Divorce Paralegal Service : Divorce 661

Back in 2012 when I started my divorce paralegal / LDA business, I knew video was the way to get my message across, but when I look back I can’t help but cringe on what I thought the message should be.

The first videos I did appear to be more advertisement, instead of what I am more known for which is providing more “how-to’s” and help videos more than anything else.

So honestly, this video does not do much else but tell you what my name is and what we do. I guess a little informative, but think you would expect to see this on a tv commercial or something like that.

And I don’t understand why these videos are now so blurry, because they were not when they first went up.

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Santa Clarita Divorce Paralegal vs. Divorce Legal Document Assistant

Santa Clarita Divorce Paralegal vs. Divorce Legal Document Assistant

In this video I discuss what a divorce legal document assistant is and how we are different than a divorce paralegal service.

The biggest different between a legal document assistant and a paralegal is this. A legal document assistant is allowed to work directly with clients to assist them with their Santa Clarita divorce. A paralegal cannot do this. A divorce paralegal has to work for an attorney and be supervised by that attorney.

What this means is that you cannot just hire the paralegal, you have to hire the divorce attorney or law firm. So if someone is representing that they are a divorce paralegal, technically they are in illegal business and should not be providing these legal services.

I decided to go through some of my old YouTube videos from over 5 years ago and it was interesting to see my early video beginnings.  What is funny is that the camera is slightly out of focus, but hey, at least I got out there and was creating content! (Read More Below Video)

But you as the consumer would not know that divorce paralegals cannot technically assist you and by and large, this industry is not monitored and there is no recourse for these unauthorized paralegal practices in Santa Clarita, so they are allowed to stay in business.

The reason these people do this is because there are requirements to becoming registered as a Legal Document Assistant and because they don’t have the property training, background and / or education, they cannot meet the requirements to become registered Legal Document Assistants in California.

So the short story is you need to verify that they are a Divorce Legal Document Assistant and not just a paralegal.

How do you tell? Ask to see their Legal Document Assistant registration card. I have mine right on the front of our website to show we are a company that can be in business.

Santa Clarita Divorce Filings Up In May 2017 For Divorce 661

Santa Clarita Divorce Filings Up In May 2017 For Divorce 661

Wow, I was so busy the first and second week of May that I haven’t even had a chance to write my daily blog post. While we normally file about 20 to 25 divorce cases in an average month, as of today, May 13, 2017 I have already filed 22 new divorce cases.

In one day alone, I filed 6 new divorce cases. I am not sure if that is a record day for divorce filings for Divorce661, but it was definitely note worthy.

There are certain trends I have seen since starting this divorce business in 2012. We see increased in filings from January through May or June and then a slight decrease in divorce filings in June through August.

The only thing that makes sense about the slowing down in June is that kids are graduating and summer is beginning. That is the only reason I can come up with for the slowdown during this time.

Then, when the kids go back to school, say around September, we get really busy again. This business will continue right up until about Thanksgiving when we see things slow down again. This slowdown runs us until the end of the year. This is pretty obvious with all the holidays towards the end of the year.

The questions is, are there more people filing during these months organically, or is it simply a build up over these slow months where people would have normally filed, but for the summer months and holidays?

Either way we stay pretty busy year round with about 20 to 25 filings per month. I can see this May we might be looking closer to 35+ divorce filings if the current pace keeps up.

Santa Clarita Divorce : Do I Have To Be Separated Before Filing For Divorce : Divorce 661

Santa Clarita Divorce : Do I Have To Be Separated Before Filing For Divorce : Divorce 661

When you call to speak to me about using our services for your Santa Clarita Divorce, one of the questions I will ask you is, “if your are still living together or if you have separated already”.  For those that say they are already living apart will often say, “we are separated, but not legally”.

This is an area which causes a lot of confusion for people. They think either one of two things. First, they think that they have to be physically separated for it to count as a separation. Second, they think they have to become legally separated first as a condition before filing for divorce.

So let’s discuss these two issues.

Do I Have To Be Separated Before Filing For Divorce?

The answer is NO. While in some States, you have to by physically separated, in California, you do not need to be physically separated for any specific period of time. In fact, you do not have to be separated at all prior to filing your Santa Clarita Divorce.  If you are not physically separated you will simply use the date you are filing your Santa Clarita divorce as the date of separation.

Do You Have To Be Legally Separated To File For Divorce?

Again, NO! There are people that believe that they have to first file for Legal Separation first, before they can file for divorce.  This is not the case. You don’t file for legal separation and then file for divorce. I have had people do that before contacting our Santa Clarita Divorce service simply because they thought you had to first file for legal separation.

If you find yourself in the situation where you already filed for legal separation and now realize you want to divorce, there are two situations you may find yourself in.

  1. Filed For legal separation, but case not finalized – There is good news here. If you filed for legal separation and your case is not finalized and judgement has not been entered, you can filed an amended Petition and request your case become a divorce. This is good because you won’t have to file a new divorce case with the court and have to pay the court fees again.
  2. Filed for legal Separation and case IS finalized – If you filed for legal separation and your legal separation case has already finalized, you can still obviously get divorced, but you will have to start a new case. The good news is that you won’t have to revisit all the issues related to custody and property because that would have all been handled in the legal separation case, but you will have to pay the court fees and start a new case altogether.

Santa Clarita Divorce : Common Mistakes When Filing Your Santa Clarita Divorce : Divorce 661

Santa Clarita Divorce : Common Mistakes When Filing Your Santa Clarita Divorce

I see several issues that continue to come up with people trying to file their own Santa Clarita Divorce. (Video at bottom)

Common Mistakes When Filing Your Santa Clarita Divorce

1.  Names Must Match On Summons & Petition – Using a different version of your name on the Divorce Summons & Petition. The names your use on your summons must match that on the petition. So, for instance. If you use Tim Blankenship on the Summons, use Tim Blankenship on the Petition.

What we see people doing, who are trying to do their own Santa Clarita Divorce is use different variants of their name throughout their divorce paperwork.  Here is an example. They start with Tim Blankenship and then in some places write, Tim S. Blankenship and in others Timothy Blankenship. This usually happens when people are filling out the divorce paperwork by hand or typing it into fillable forms.

2.  Not Using A Date Of Separation – Another issues I see is that people doing their own Santa Clarita Divorce is putting down a date of marriage, but not putting down the date of separation. This is cause for your divorce case to be rejected.

You need to have a date of separation on your divorce petition. “But Tim, we are still living together and not legally separated!” Doesn’t matter, you need to have a date of separation.  In fact, most of my clients are still living together at the time of filing for divorce and there is no requirement that you actually be separated prior to filing for divorce as it is in some states.

Here are some examples of what you can use as the date of separation for your Santa Clarita Divorce. (And yes, you can use a date in the past). You can use the day you discussed with your spouse that you wanted a divorce. You can use a day that you started sleeping on the couch. You can use a date of incident such as when your spouse perhaps did something that caused you wanting a divorce. If nothing else makes sense, then we just use the date of the filing of your divorce as your date of separation.

3.  Requesting Your Name Changed On The Divorce Petition – Okay, I get asked all the time, “can i choose a name” where is asks if you want to restore your former name.  The answer is no. As part of the divorce, you can only revert back to your former, maiden name.

The reason is that if you just choose any old name, and when you go to say Social Security or the DMV, they are going to check that it is, in fact, your former maiden name. The only way to choose a name of your choice is to file a legal name change with the court.

4.  Using An Address For You Minor Children Outside of California – This does not happen too often, but often enough to address it. If you have children, you need to also file a form called a UCCJEA which is form FL-105. The courts want to know where your children have lived for the last 5 years. You children have to be living in California in order for the state to have jurisdiction to make orders for child custody.

If you state that your children are living out of state, you will not be able to have custody orders in California. If you find yourself in this situation, even if you list your children on the divorce petition and then try to turn in your divorce judgment to the court, they will reject your judgment and tell you that the court does not have the jurisdiction to make orders for child custody and that you need to remove the custody portion from your judgment. This is a problem if you need custody orders as part of your Santa Clarita Divorce.

If you need assistance with your Santa Clarita divorce make sure to give us a call. We have local offices right here in Santa Clarita and can assist you with finalizing your divorce.